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When your conversation reaches a natural conclusion, pull the trigger by saying “I won’t keep you” or “Give my regards to [mutual acquaintance]” before making your escape. Adam Dachis, a coauthor of The Awkward Human Survival Guide, adds that context can provide you the perfect exit strategy. “If you’re at a party, excuse yourself to get a drink; if you’re at work, you can leave to get some coffee. You can also say, ‘It’s nice talking to you, but I have to talk to someone before they leave.’” Learn 11 more small talk tips that will make you less awkward.
当你的谈话自然结束时,扣动扳机说“我不会留下你”或“向[共同认识的人]问好”,然后再逃跑。《笨拙的人类生存指南》的合著者亚当·达奇补充说,环境可以为你提供完美的退出策略。“如果你在聚会上,请原谅自己去喝一杯;如果你在工作,你可以离开去喝咖啡。你也可以说,‘很高兴和你交谈,但我必须在某人离开之前和他交谈。’“再多学11个小贴士,这会让你不那么尴尬。