However, last night he suddenly came from behind me, put his arms around my waist, and then started running his fingers across my skin, stroking my hair, and gently kissing my ear!
Finally, just when he was about to take off my underwear at the last minute...I was scared! Awake! !
Being touched, intimately touching, surging with blood... and then being woken up by a fright. When I woke up, I regretted it! ! ! I guess you guys have had the same experience, right? !
So, today, the editor will talk to you about "Spring Dream".
Why do people dream?
During sleep, brain cells also enter a state of relaxation and rest, but some brain cells are not fully rested, and weak stimuli cause their activity, which leads to dreams.
Dreaming is a normal physiological phenomenon, but so far, there is no definite conclusion about dreams. Zhou Gong's interpretation of dreams and Freud's dream interpretations are the words of one family.
Some schools believe that dreams are subconscious activities, and the world of dreams is also the world of the subconscious. There is also a school of thought that dreams are randomly excited by brain stem electrical waves.
Everyone's sleep is from shallow to deep. In a state of light sleep, although you close your eyes, your brain is functioning normally. During REM, the state of the brain is almost identical to being fully awake.
Normal people have about 5 to 6 rapid eye movements every night, and this time is when we dream. If you wake up at the time of rapid eye movement, your memory of dreams will be clearer, otherwise you will not remember that you had a dream.
Then... why do you have a "spring dream"?
Many people find it hard to tell when they have a spring dream:
God, am I learning badly?
Oops, am I sick?
......
So, what happened to Chunmeng?
Spring dream is usually an unconscious or subconscious sexual psychological activity, a form of sexual masturbation, and a psychological defense mechanism for the body to adjust the tension. It is a completely normal psychological phenomenon, not a disease.
If the sexual needs of people with normal sexual development cannot be met in reality, they will get satisfaction from their sexual dreams.
Spring dreams are spontaneous in the subconscious, not people can control.
Besides, dreams are not the same as reality. Most people will not think according to their dreams, let alone do them according to their dreams. Therefore, there is no moral evaluation significance in spring dreams.
In a word, spring dream is a normal sexual psychological phenomenon, and its function is to obtain alternative satisfaction of sexual needs.
What situations are easy to have "spring dreams"?
People with sexual experience are more likely to have clear erotic dreams; people without sexual experience tend to have vague sexual objects; people with low levels of sexual repression are more likely to have naked erotic dreams; people with high levels of sexual repression have more erotic dreams. Obscure and hidden.
Sleeping on the stomach can easily lead to strong spring dreams, because this position makes the sensitive parts have more contact with the bed, causing certain stimulation.
According to the results of a foreign survey: before the age of 45, the proportions of men and women who had sex dreams were 100% and 75%.
Women's erotic dreams mostly occur between the ages of 20 and 45; men's erotic dreams peak between the ages of 15 and 30.
The number of women's spring dreams is about 3 to 4 times a year, while the number of boys is more, even many times that of girls.
Dreaming has these benefits for the body
The current mainstream views are as follows:
*Dreaming may be to organize the information received by the brain during the day, so that the information that cannot be properly processed during the day is organized in the dream.
*Dreaming can exercise the function of the brain, allowing dormant brain cells to take this opportunity to exercise their own functions and avoid premature decline;
If you are woken up during the rapid eye movement period and disturb your clear dreams, it may lead to memory loss, the whole person is not well, and it may also lead to "getting up".
PS: Dreams are often the source of inspiration~
The chemist Augustus dreamed of a snake biting his tail, and was inspired to come up with the ring structure of the benzene molecule;
The full version of the periodic table studied by Mendeleev was also drawn in a dream.
This "nightmare" requires vigilance!
If the nightmare lasts for more than 2 weeks, you need to see if there is an event in real life that makes you feel at risk.
If there is, go and fix it; if there is no life event, see if your hormone levels are affected.
For example, whether a woman is in the menstrual cycle or menopause, estrogen can interfere with a person's neural activity.
If these factors are excluded, and you still have "nightmare" for a long time, it depends on whether other factors are combined, such as early awakening, insomnia, sweating of the hands and feet, etc.
If you have these, you should consider whether you suffer from mild depression or anxiety, and you need to find a professional doctor for consultation and treatment.
Dreams at night, always tired after waking up
Sleeping environment, psychological stress, and some illnesses can all lead to dreams. Some friends, including doctors, also think that dreaming is a sign of not having a good rest.
In fact, this notion is not entirely accurate.
Some people at home and abroad have carried out physiological test research on chronic insomnia with complaints of insomnia, dreaming all night or dreaming. There is no difference.
So why do you feel tired? It is related to the events of your dreams and your own emotional character.
Panic and terrifying dreams often make people wake up from sleep, and it is difficult to fall back asleep after waking up; strong and deep dreams leave deep traces in brain cells, making the brain unable to rest and fatigue.
Generally speaking, people who are introverted and sensitive are more likely to have many dreams and tired dreams.
In the part of dreaming, there are endless brain holes waiting for us to develop. As for dreaming, dream interpretation, etc., just listen to the story, don’t take it too seriously, after all—
