What is the difference between the sexual needs of men and women
There are differences in sexual needs between men and women.
At the beginning of an intimate relationship, both parties are like firewood that meets a fire, and it is easy to ignite. Both men and women can be satisfied.
This is because the level of a hormone called oxytocin rises in both bodies, and it is easy to have sex when you see someone you like. Usually exceeds the normal level of a person's libido.
But over time, these oxytocin levels naturally decline.
When both men return to normal levels of sexual desire, differences in their sexual needs emerge.
For women, women's sexual needs are cyclical.
Changes in the relationship between menstrual periods, fertility, and libido in women.
The first seven days of the menstrual period are the ovulation period for girls. During this time, women have the strongest desire. The eight days after the menstrual period are the safe period. Fertility declines, and the level of libido also declines.
When girls have strong physical desires, men's courtship success rate will be higher. On the contrary, it is lower.
When a girl has no desire, even if she persuades herself to have a relationship with her boyfriend, the quality of sex will not be very high.
The result of sex that goes against natural selection will also reduce the pregnancy rate, which is one of the reasons why many couples will not get pregnant after hard work because they lose their true desire.
When you woo your girlfriend and she doesn't say yes, it's not because she doesn't love you, it's probably just because she wasn't as lustful at the time.
When the success rate will be higher, you have to count the date.
In terms of age, there are also differences in the peak sexual desire of men and women.
Before the age of 30, men's desires are in a period of exuberance. At this time, men are in a state of active attack and can't wait to stick to their girlfriends all the time.
As long as you want, he basically won't refuse.
At this time, most women's desires are still in a hazy period, and their sexual desires are not so strong.
After the age of 30, the situation is quite the opposite.
After the age of 35, the concentration of testosterone in a man's body decreases, and his libido also begins to decline. At the same time, due to work pressure, family burden, slow blood flow throughout the body, and decreased muscle tone, the "ability" will also be weakened and the duration will be shortened.
After the age of 30, women's sexual desire is fully developed, and they begin to become vigorous. At this time, women are more likely to be in an active state.
Due to the difference in sexual desire age, the contradiction between men and women in sexuality is highlighted again.
There are also differences in the sexual performance of men and women.
Most of men's sexual impulses are spontaneous biological instincts, while women's sexual impulses are mostly produced through induced behaviors, such as caressing, hugging, and kissing.
Men and women also place different weights on sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy. Most men feel that sexual intimacy and physical intimacy are more important than emotional intimacy.
And most women would feel that emotional connection, love and warmth are more important than sex.
Thus, when men feel alienated from their partners, they want to use sex to connect. Women usually need to feel loved for each other before they want to have sex.
Then the problem between the sexes becomes even more pronounced: Men want to use sex as a way to reconnect, while women want to change the atmosphere between them first.
Not only the above, but sex is also related to the real life environment, including work, life, children, both parents, etc., will have an impact on the sexual relationship.
Simply using sex to measure love or not, and whether it is sexually attractive, is too one-sided.
Whether TA loves you or not is really impossible to measure simply by sex.
What measures can increase libido before sex
1. Environmental layout
A dimly lit environment can fill each other with a sense of mystery, and a soothing music can quickly ignite the excitement, making it easier for each other to enter a state of sexual life.
2. Whisper softly in the ear
In a dark environment, whispering in your partner's ear can quickly feel exciting, especially for women. The ear is a part with rich sensitive nerves. Whispering softly can make the body feel electric, so it can quickly enter the state.
3. Touch the body
Touching each other's bodies can feel numb, people can't stop, and they can quickly increase their libido and automatically enter their sex life.
