Why can't women be like men, every time they have sex? - Psychologist Wilson made an interesting experiment: when he let monkeys walk on a seesaw, he found that it was only irregular and occasionally The monkeys were the most enthusiastic about walking the seesaw when they gave a little food as a reward. this is known as the "Wilson Effect". In fact, the essence of the theory is not difficult to understand. Just imagine, if it is stipulated that if a person is given 5 yuan as long as he plays 1,000 mahjong tiles, will anyone still like to play mahjong? Fear of childbirth, devoted to sex with great enthusiasm.
Why is it so difficult for a woman to get a sex balm? - After ejaculating, most men see sadness and loss in the eyes of their sexual partners. This makes men have a strong sense of guilt and frustration-premature ejaculation has become a heart disease of almost all men. Feminist sexologists consider premature ejaculation as long as a man ejaculates before a partner reaches the climax. This definition is undoubtedly too harsh for men. From a biological point of view, doctors believe that as long as a man has the ability to ejaculate his own semen into the vagina, so that the spouse can become pregnant, it does not count as premature ejaculation.
Faced with two competing opinions, the World Health Organization came forward to make a quantitative reconciliation: Ejaculation after 15 or more pumpings is not considered premature ejaculation. The implication is that after 15 pumping, whether women can experience pleasure or cream tide, that is their own business, and has nothing to do with men.
It is a pity that this definition of goodwill for men given by the WHO has not rescued many men from self-blame, but made things worse: many women who try to give their sexual partners self-confidence, often from At the beginning of the first pumping, he shouted and screamed, trying his best to show his excitement and even the tide within 15 times. Needless to say, this undoubtedly increased the man's psychological burden and reduced his pumping times.
If a woman reaches the cream tide every time before the man ejaculates, then when the man ejaculates, she has lost interest. such a woman, of course, is not easy to conceive. Another reason is to start with the "Wilson effect": a woman who can only experience the pleasure of sexual creams by chance, and a woman who will get sexual creams every time, which one will be more enthusiastic about intercourse What? Of course the former!
It can be seen that we just happened to think the opposite - it is those women who are too easy to get sexual creams, who do not like sex, and have a small chance of getting pregnant after intercourse. Women with this trait are bound to be eliminated by natural selection. The ones left to this day are all women who make men downcast - passionate about sex, but not easy to be satisfied.
But because of this, women gain the continued interest and ability to be sexually receptive. Unlike men, women have the ability to have continuous sex with multiple men over a period of time. According to the theory of "multiple fathers", this ability is necessary for women in the primitive period.
So what should be done in sex life to make it easier for women to obtain sexual satisfaction?
Methods/steps to meet women's needs:
First of all, the mood of two people is very important for sex life. If a woman is in a low mood because of life and work, it is sometimes not suitable to ask for sex immediately at this time. You should communicate more verbally with the other party first to ease the other party's mood. Giving a hug or a kiss is a good start to the next step.
Secondly, the environment for sexual life is also very important. Sometimes changing the location of the activity may produce unexpected results, such as a sudden activity on the sofa or carpet, which will better stimulate the excitement of women. Satisfaction is easier to achieve.
If the sex life is uncoordinated due to the long time between husband and wife, and it is not easy for women to be satisfied, you can use more language stimulation during foreplay, such as "I don't know how to miss you today", "I'll wait and see how I want you" nice"
You must beg for mercy first.” Waiting for this, it will often stimulate women very well, and it is women who enter the state in advance.
Adequate foreplay is also an important condition for women to meet. Don’t go straight to the topic as soon as you come. You can kiss your partner’s earlobe. Some people are very sensitive in this part, or slowly kiss their partner’s sensitive parts, or gently with their hands. Caressing, good foreplay is also very easy for women to achieve satisfaction.
Then there is the method after entering, don't go on a rampage directly, you can alternate between fast and slow, such a frequency is easier for women to achieve a state of satisfaction. Timely communication after the event is also necessary to maintain a good sex life. You can ask the other party how they feel and understand the other party's needs in time, so that you can better meet the other party in the future.
If a man has premature ejaculation, he can use a male delay product (such as Nemel Male Delay Spray), which can reduce the sensitivity of male penis, prolong the intercourse time, and allow both parties to have a better intercourse experience.
In the end, don't ask when the other party is not feeling well, or push hard without regard to the other party's feelings. This will make the other party resist you over time, and it will be difficult for her to be satisfied in the future due to psychological effects.
