First let's talk: the different experiences of sexual pleasure and orgasm
I remember seeing such a clip in Liuliu's novel "Dwelling". After Haizao and Song Siming had a cloud and rain, Haizao sighed deeply: Hey, this is the climax of the legend! Haizao and Xiaobei have been tossing around for a year many times, every time Xiaobei asks at the last moment: "Seaweed, have you orgasm?" Seaweed is not sure which part is the climax, whether it is the excitement of Xiaobei's indiscriminate bombardment, or the twitching before the explosion. . She would say, "It's high, it's high." Haizao had seen the description of the orgasm, and it seemed that it was a literary exaggeration. Some people feel ecstasy, who can't be conscious, who can cry because of orgasm. "Maybe it was high last time? Maybe it was high for the first time?" Seaweed is always unclear. After one or two times with Song Siming, Haizao finally understood that an orgasm is something you know for sure without guessing, and, at that moment, you are afraid of falling off a cliff...
In fact, there are many women who are still in the stage of seaweed and Xiaobei. They feel that they are excited when they have sex, which is probably an orgasm, but in fact it is just a kind of sexual pleasure, and the degree of sexual pleasure is different from orgasm.
Orgasmic Responses in Different Women
During this phase of orgasm, no two women respond exactly the same, even though the physiological changes their bodies experience are similar. Some women are calm; some are either moaning or screaming; some arch their backs, or bite things next to them, such as arms, pillows, etc. When consciousness begins to return within seconds, almost all women feel warmth, first in the pelvis and then all over the body.
The performance of orgasm can be roughly classified into three types: the first type, when a woman is hugged tightly by a man, she naturally holds her breath due to excitement, and appears to be short of breath and panting. The penis can feel the rhythmic contraction of the vaginal muscles followed by a sudden tightening, and then a sudden relaxation after tightening. This shows that the woman has just had an orgasm. Second, when women feel satisfied, cold body sweats are also a feature of orgasm. At this point, the man only needs to hug the woman's body to know. If it is cool and silky, it is the characteristic of sweating. When they are more excited, they tend to sweat drippingly and tightly hug the quilt, letting the sweat soak through the sheets and clothes... The third type, when sexual intercourse enters orgasm, the woman will reach the level of forgetfulness, her body will involuntarily tighten and close Eyes, heart fluttering, limbs limp or writhing. At this point, it means that she has an orgasm and maximum sexual satisfaction.
orgasm feeling levitating
In her sexology report, the famous sexologist Hayter described the feeling of female orgasm as follows: "My body feels levitating, full of power, a rushing flame, strong devouring everything, wonderful. The ecstasy is almost unbearable ecstasy." "I was exhilarated—my breath was short—and my head became light, as if in a dream world, where sounds were far away, and time seemed to stand still." Yes, a woman's orgasm begins with a feeling called "suspension," where she appears to be suspended in mid-air for a split second, usually 1-3 seconds. This "suspension" is equivalent to the "inevitability" that a man experiences before orgasm (a feeling a man has when he can't restrain his ejaculation).
As the clitoris is continuously stimulated rhythmically, extremely sensitive nerves send impulses to the spinal cord, where they are immediately diverted back to the orgasmic muscles of the pelvic region.
Women have 'multiple orgasms'
During sex, when a woman has her last contracture, her body quickly loses sexual tension, a phase that Masters and Johnson call "resolution." If they don't subside right away, but return to a plateau, and can repeatedly re-stimulate from the plateau to orgasm, this phenomenon is "multiple orgasms", and every woman has this potential.
The reason a woman has the ability to have multiple orgasms is because of the numerous intricate blood vessels in her pelvis, and the contractures of an orgasm rarely drain all the pooled blood. It can be said that after the first orgasm, the woman is still full of sexual motivation, can continue to contractures, and does not need a lot of stimulation, she can bring the tension back to the orgasm point again and again. In fact, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on the amount of blood in the veins in her pelvis.
A woman's orgasm reaches its "peak"
A perfect sex life is inseparable from orgasm. If you have not experienced orgasm yet, you must change yourself, create a good sexual life environment, and face it with a correct attitude. I believe that through your efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve orgasm.
