Survey: Both men and women like to listen to "cry to bed"
Regarding the problem of "calling bed" in sex, there has always been a kind of thought that "sings the keynote": it seems that women should play the role of "dissolute", and men should pretend to be cool. this "trouble" has also plagued Xiaoling, a female white-collar worker in Guangzhou.
"Two years of marriage, we've been plain, and in that respect we're more like a traditional old couple. I thought it was because my husband didn't understand romance, but to my surprise, I recently found out that he was watching porn. , I like to hear the voice of the heroine of porn movies..." Xiaoling admitted that her husband's transformation really surprised her.
A survey backs this up. Among the 478,621 netizens, more than 90% of the males liked the other party to call for bed. Among them, 40.28% of the men said that the other party must be called to bed when making love; 53.18% said that they expected the other party to call for the bed.
"During sex, a woman's coquettish cry and rapid breathing are the most effective aphrodisiacs and aphrodisiacs for men in their sexual life."
Another set of data from the survey showed that 62.90% of men felt that the other party's call would make them more excited; 32.29% of men felt conquest when they heard the other party's call.
The survey also revealed a new piece of information: more than 70% of women also like the other person to call for bed, and the reason is the same as that of men: 58.88% of women feel that the other side’s call to bed will stimulate their physical excitement; 31.00% of women like the other side’s call to bed because of this Give them a sense of tenderness. "Women hope to get each other's response and verbal communication during sex, which will give women more pleasure and a feeling of being cared for during sex."
Analysis: "Calling" is an orgasm alarm
So many men and women like to listen to the bed, so does not call it a "disharmony"?
"Physiologically, there are two reasons why women cry during sex. One is that when you approach or reach orgasm, the amount of oxygen in the blood will decrease. At this time, women will be in a state of mild hypoxia, However, there is a series of so-called 'orgasmic symptoms' such as absent eyes, blurred vision, mild body cramps, etc. The oxygen content in the blood decreases, and the carbon dioxide will increase relatively, so the breathing will inevitably speed up, and the orgasm will occur naturally. The characteristic muffled sound."
The second reason, he pointed out, is that the "stimulant" in a woman's brain increases as she approaches orgasm. "about this exciting substance, people's understanding of it is still very limited, but it has been known that it can make people confused and has the effect of relieving brain inhibition. This effect will dilute women's sanity and send out even their own It's unimaginable cries. It can be seen that the cries during sex are completely spontaneous physiological phenomena."
"Both men and women, in the process of sexual intercourse, when they feel excited and the orgasm comes, they can't help but scream. Of course, there will be some people who don't make a sound even when the orgasm comes, but it doesn't mean that they don't have sex during sex. Get an orgasm. They choose not to bark, which is mainly related to their shyness and personal sex habits." For men, they like to "listen" more and "bow" less.
So how should women cry out so that men can be more excited?
1. A voice from the heart
Even if it is a moan, it must be an emotional cry, not a dull cry. Therefore, having a mouth without a heart is definitely a taboo to call the bed. Since you want to call, please call to be convincing. First, feel every movement of his body on you with your heart. Wait until you really feel it before calling. Don't keep calling, it will look fake.
2. Human-like calling
Many acquaintances of male friends are not complimented by the voice of Japanese porn actresses, thinking that it sounds not only uncute, but also very disturbing like noise. In short, the sound of bed calls should not be too loud, too exaggerated, too outrageous, too shocking, otherwise it will not only fail to achieve the desired effect, but also hurt a man's self-esteem. Also, you are tired of calling yourself!
3. Don't say spoilers
When you are in the same room, you should say something appropriate to the situation, and you must not say anything that is disappointing. Such as "Quick! Give me an orgasm" and "Can you ejaculate quickly?" Although these are expressions of your feelings, it is inevitable to say it directly. And, if you want to enjoy better sex, you should take action to stimulate him, which will help sex more.
4. Gasping in his ear When you kiss passionately, you can make a gasping sound in his ear, at this time, you might as well call his nickname softly. A few rhythmic and erotic gasps will definitely hook a man's soul, arouse the most primitive impulsive desire in the depths of a man, and then hug you fiercely...
5. Similar to sobbing, slightly open the lips, slightly raise the tongue, press the tip of the tongue against the middle teeth of the lower teeth, or even touch the inner surface of the lower lip slightly, so that the upper tongue surface and the upper palate of the mouth form a small cross-flow surface, breathe deeply with a little effort, and emit similar Sob, relax and practice a few times, put the comfortable emotions in, and then put the cool to high emotions in. When you are comfortable with practice, because it is unlikely that you will be breathing the whole game, your mouth will be very dry, so it is very exciting to put in the real sound occasionally. Of course, only the real sound is deliberate and very exciting. Tired, but also to add breath.
6. In addition to making a sound, you should also work hard on your eyes. Before falling in love, you can close your eyes and wait for his kiss; when he is about to enter, you can frown slightly. Looking at the man's face, his eyes are scattered and out of focus, and with a few sighs, he can make the man feel so soft...
