Physiologically
1. take birth control pills
Some women use the oral contraceptive pill for contraception because it is efficient and easy to use. However, the contraceptive pill is actually a sex hormone drug, which will break the normal hormone balance and inhibit the secretion of "trace" male hormones in the human body, which will reduce the secretion of lubricating fluid and cause discomfort or pain in the "small garden" due to dryness.
2. Cleanliness
It is understandable to love cleanliness, but everything must have a degree. many women believe that using vaginal cleaning solution to clean small gardens is a good hygiene practice, but excessive use of cleaning solution will damage the natural pH environment in the garden, causing discomfort in the garden, and even increasing the possibility of mold infection. These symptoms will directly affect the girl's sexual well-being index. No matter how severe the frigidity is, it may be the reason at the psychological level, and there is no way to improve and control it. In fact, women's small gardens can have a self-cleaning function. It is enough to rinse with hot water or choose unscented soap.
3. Taking certain medicines
Some specific drugs can also cause a woman to be frigid, such as allergy drugs that can make a small garden more dry; high blood pressure and antidepressant drugs make the muscles and tissues around a small garden too relaxed, how can an orgasm, let alone physically Improve the situation.
4. Deterioration of physical function
The reason why women grow older is that their physical functions will deteriorate, and their married life is often powerless, even dry, unable to orgasm, etc., and this physiological change cannot be effectively slowed down or improved, not to mention satisfying another. partner's needs.
Psychologically
1. Psychological rejection of sexual behavior
Chinese women have a relatively strong sense of sexual shame. Traditional education has led to women's self-restraint and restraint, and it is difficult for them to fully enjoy sex. Some even have the pain caused by the history of sexual trauma (such as rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.), can't enjoy the pleasure brought by sex, don't know how to improve the intercourse and simply avoid sex, so that they develop into frigidity.
2. Lack of knowledge and skills
This is the consequence of being occupied in the primary school's physiological knowledge class. I don't understand the difference in the sexual response of men and women. Ignore foreplay and go straight. It brings a bad experience to the sex life. .
3. Too long time, lack of freshness
Every time it is the same set of actions, there is no foreplay, no communication, it seems to be hastily handed in homework to complete the task. Of course it will be cool. Sex life should be a process of continuous exploration, and changes in posture and use of sex toys will bring different experiences.
Solution:
1. In some women's living habits such as contraception, cleaning the vagina, etc., you must choose the appropriate treatment method, learn more about the correct method, and avoid misunderstandings.
2. Lack of sexual knowledge and skills, you can only study more, watch some teaching films moderately, and learn the necessary knowledge. Personally, I do not recommend watching rough island action movies, try to watch warm series of erotic dramas with plots.
3. There are many reasons why women avoid sexual life and form apathy in psychology. Male compatriots must be tolerant and solve slowly, so that she can feel that sex is not so scary, and it will gradually improve and even get rid of it. Pleasant enjoyment after all precautions. It is really not recommended to see a psychiatrist, there will be professional explanations on how to rebuild the psychology.
4. If the married life is tired, you can buy some sex toys to adjust the fun of the married life, such as sexy underwear, dancing eggs, flirting between men and women, etc. As long as you can play, how can you not find fun. Abandon the prejudice against sex toys, once you start trying, it will bring unexpected surprises to your sex.
