The common causes of cold heart in women are:
1. Psychological shadows may be caused by psychologically leaving a bad impression of sex. The shadows exist in the heart for a long time, and the desire for sex will naturally decline. this may be due to abuse as a child. Of course, this situation is relatively rare! There is also the fact that the other party's skills are not good or rough, causing her discomfort or pain!
2. Wrong concept of sexuality. Some women become sexually indifferent when they grow up. It may be that they have received wrong concept of sexuality since childhood. For example, living in a very traditional family, there are strict elders who have been educating them all the time. Sex is wrong and a good one. Women shouldn't like sex, having sex with men is a very shameful thing, etc. When a woman accepts this kind of thinking from a young age, and grows up with normal sexual desire, she will naturally try her best to restrain herself, and it will naturally develop into asexuality after a long time.
3. When there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, a woman's sex is based on love, and only love can have sex. Therefore, if there is an emotional problem between the husband and wife, the woman's libido will temporarily decrease, which is a selective indifference. After the relationship between husband and wife is dealt with, it will naturally disappear. Therefore, both husband and wife must be open and honest, help each other, and respect each other, in order to harvest harmonious sex.
What should a woman do when she encounters these problems?
1. Explore innovation
Perfect sex is like pursuing new ideas, there is no need to stick to the rules, which is a very smart approach. many of us don't know which part of our body likes to be touched because we're always used to touching those proven sensitive areas. Spend about an hour stroking his entire body -- running your fingertips across his skin -- and have him do the same to you, using a sex toy to find and stimulate sensitive spots.
2. Control desire
The premise of accumulating desire is to learn proper abstinence. Not having sex for a week may not matter to many people, but two weeks is a suitable time to build enough desire. Make some rules, such as stroking but not breaking the line, or touching below the waist. But don't let the abstinence time for too long, otherwise there may be no desire to be together, and it's a bit of a loss, isn't it?
3. The rhythm of foreplay
Simply put, slow down the speed of making love. For almost all men, sex is like a race, and when you're just starting out, they can't wait to cross the finish line. But a man should enjoy foreplay, take the time to understand how to get him excited, and give her a good orgasm. So never feel guilty about foreplay - because you deserve it!
4. Wild stimulation
Sex with a little stimulation would be more perfect. Everyone has a risk-taking mentality, which will make them very excited, as if they are "stealing", and this tension will make people enjoy the pleasure of sex more. But keep in mind that during the day in the park, the chance of being seen by others is very high. So be sure to pay attention to the location you choose to make sure there are no peeps, passing kids and police.
