Orgasm is essentially the accumulation of pleasure to a certain degree of release. Here is a description of female orgasm in Obstetrics and Gynecology. Welcome to self-test:
1. With the arrival of orgasm, the vaginal and anal sphincter muscles undergo involuntary rhythmic contractions, about 3 to 12 times, gradually disappearing from strong to weak, and the uterus also contracts and lifts, accompanied by facial distortion, body cramps, moaning, and outbursts. sweating and brief confusion;
2. Sexual flushing can occur in many parts of the body. Heart rate increases to 100-180 beats/min, breathing reaches 40 beats/min, systolic blood pressure increases by 30-80 mmHg, diastolic blood pressure increases by 20-40 mmHg;
3. The orgasm lasts only a few seconds, and the gradually accumulated sexual tension is quickly released in a short period of time through strong muscle spasms. Psychologically feel great joy and pleasure.
What prevents women from having an orgasm?
That's right, women can't escape the problems that men encounter! Wake up and draw the key points: the thing that hinders women from getting pleasure may be the female orgasm disorder. It means that women are sexually interested and have requirements, the male ticket technique is good and hard, the female body is also very excited (the genitals are swollen and the vagina is fully lubricated), but the orgasm either never comes or not at all.
So women can only watch the male orgasm, but can't share his feelings, your pleasure is very low, and it is rarely or difficult to achieve sexual satisfaction.
When I saw this description, I instantly felt that dark clouds covered the sky. Furthermore, not having an orgasm can also affect a woman's self-esteem and relationships with her partner. Sexual dysfunction can be roughly divided into two categories:
The first is situational disorder, in which the climax is conditional, such as being able to climax when "entertaining oneself", but not when falling in love with a male ticket (grief and helplessness); the other is complete Sexual disorder means that women can never achieve orgasm with any sexual partner under any circumstances (more grief and helplessness).
On the Self-cultivation of Female Orgasm
If you have physical and mental problems, you must remember to seek a doctor; no problem, you must continue to improve your self-cultivation. You may have thought about reading a book and hitting the gym 3 times a week, but enhancing your sexual experience has never been on your agenda. So, please think about it.
Here are some general suggestions, such as:
1. Learn the basic knowledge and skills of sex
2. Use your own imagination to devote your various senses to wonderful sexual fantasies. You can also use music or love action movies to boost the fun, or it is also good to enhance your libido!
3. Talk to your partner about this, and get the other party's support and understanding. After all, if you can't enjoy it, the other party can feel your disappointment over time.
Don't put all your orgasms on men
Now you might as well imagine that you can take the initiative and control the situation like a man, is it a little excited?
You will pursue more initiative, experience and release more vividly! This power does not come from a man, but from yourself! You can't pin your orgasm on a man!
If you don't put in the effort yourself, don't pay attention to how you feel, and don't guide your partner on how to caress and stimulate properly. What's the difference between that and salted fish?
