Regardless of whether this friend is a sex addict or not, I would like to emphasize sex first - a strong sexual desire is not a sex addiction!
We can't judge whether there is a sexual addiction simply from the frequency of self-wei or xing life, because everyone's sexual desire is inherently strong or weak. And psychologist Rory Reid believes that a key criterion for sex addiction is that "the desire to have sex controls every part of their lives, but they are powerless to change."
From this point of view, this girl is not a sex addict! At the very least, you have the ability to control your desires-you want to hug and kiss when you are with your boyfriend, not just anyone when you have sex. Can pop.
The premise of wanting to go to bed is to go home, not to go out on the street or in public places such as parks.
Your sexuality doesn't control every part of your life. To a certain extent, you may just be too possessive of your boyfriend, and you love him so much that you are full of lust.
After excluding excessive sexual desire and impulsive sexual behavior due to brain damage or some physiological reasons, sex addiction has the following characteristics, and those who think they are sex addiction can judge. [The following features are proposals in DSM-V, not diagnostic criteria, please do not take the right seat]
1. For at least 6 months, repeated intense sexual fantasies, sexual impulses or sexual behaviors, meeting the following 3 or more:
a. The time spent on other important non-sexual behavior-related goals, activities, etc., has been affected by repeated interference with sexual fantasies, sexual impulses, and sexual behaviors.
b. Coping with unpleasant emotions, such as anxiety, depression, boredom, loneliness, irritability, etc., repeatedly through sexual fantasies, sexual impulses, and sexual behaviors.
c. Confronting stressful events in life by repeatedly immersing in sexual fantasies, urges, and sexual behaviors.
d. Repeated and unsuccessful attempts to control and reduce these sexual fantasies, urges, and sexual behaviors.
e. Knowing that sexual behavior will cause physical and psychological harm to oneself and others, but repeatedly ignore the harm and continue.
2. Because of frequent and intense sexual fantasies, sexual impulses, and sexual behaviors that obviously cause clinical pain or damage to the individual in terms of social, occupational, or other important social functions.
3. Sexual fantasies, urges, and sexual behaviors that are not caused by ingestion of drugs or drugs.
The simple summary is that if a person has self-weird more than 5 times a day, and thinks about self-weiwei all day long, regardless of time and occasion, it will seriously affect their normal life, and in their normal intimate relationship, they will not be able to experience natural intimacy. feeling and pleasure.
In fact, most men think that their partners are not open enough, that they are too taboo about sex, that they cannot understand and control them, and give each other happiness.
Women's hypersexuality is happy for them. In the education of Chinese people, sex is too embarrassing to talk about, especially women, it is a topic that cannot be talked about.
Therefore, if women feel that their sexual desire is too strong, they can communicate with their partners to see if they need to adjust the frequency of sex and reduce the number of sex. Of course, many men will say that they like this and that and that they can resist, but in fact they are a little reluctant.
Suggestion: Use a toy to masturbate to reduce the physical burden of your partner, or use a toy to satisfy yourself once during sex, and then officially enter the double sex.
After all, healthy sex is the most intimate part of our intimate relationships with our partners, and sex is not just a way for humans to reproduce, but also a way to communicate with each other.
