When you have sex for the first time, the movement must be lighter, which will be beneficial to both of you, otherwise it is easy to break the private parts, or even swell, and there will be feelings of tension, shyness and fear, but try to keep calm, Don't enter in a hurry, come slowly, and don't move too much.
You can try several times
For the first time, you may not be able to enter successfully at one time. this is also very normal. If you fail at one time, you can try several times and try to relax your mind. If you feel very painful, you can use some lubricant in an appropriate amount to reduce the hymen caused by abrasions. pain of.
Don't assume it will hurt
The original tight vagina, inserted by a foreign body, will feel somewhat uncomfortable, but if it has been considered a kind of "pain" in the brain before it happens, then this fresh feeling will naturally be Thinking it's painful, coupled with nervousness, will make the pain worse, and it may be exciting to recognize the feeling as intense sexual stimulation.
short time is normal
For the first time, the man is overexcited due to lack of sexual knowledge and inexperience in the past, and there will be premature ejaculation. This is very normal. With the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of experience in the future, plus The two sides have become more and more tacit, and gradually it can be normal. In addition, the man will have a refractory period after ejaculation, and after the refractory period, it is usually successful.
Choose the easiest pose
For first-time men and women, there is no need to use any new and complicated postures, the simplest and most traditional can be used. The best posture for men and women is the best. During the process, a pillow can be placed under the woman's buttocks. , which makes it easier to open the vaginal opening and enter it more smoothly.
not necessarily bleeding
Even a virgin may not bleed. In fact, it is common for women's hymen to rupture. There are many behaviors in daily life that can cause it to rupture, such as performing relatively physical labor and intense physical exercise. , wrestling, etc. Therefore, there is no need for doubts and unnecessary contradictions.
Contraception must be done
If you don't plan to have children and don't want to take contraceptive pills, then you must use condoms, and don't use rhythm contraception easily, because the failure rate is very high, don't use external ejaculation frequently, it will easily affect the male's sexual health, and do contraception. , in order to prevent accidents, and the whole process will be more comfortable and smooth.
How do women react when they orgasm?
Vaginal response during orgasm
The temperature rises
The normal temperature of the vagina is about 37 degrees Celsius on average, but under sexual stimulation, the vagina will be in a state of congestion, and the temperature will also rise, from 37 degrees Celsius to 38.5 degrees Celsius, and this temperature will accelerate the blood flow of men and increase blood flow. for excitement.
doubled
Under normal conditions, the average length of the vagina is 8.5 cm to 12 cm. After being sexually stimulated, the vagina will slowly deform, and the length and width will increase to 2-3 times the original, and it will not be difficult to accommodate male genitals. Adequate foreplay can further increase the volume of the vagina and enhance pleasure.
Color changes
During sex, after a woman is stimulated by foreplay, the vagina will lengthen and swell, the cervix and uterus are also slowly pulled backward and upward, and the color of the vaginal wall will also change due to blood vessel congestion, from lavender to lavender. Slowly turning into a deep purple.
spastic contraction
When the female orgasm comes, the female vagina will firstly contract for 2-4 seconds, which will make the male feel tight, and then the vagina will contract regularly, with an interval of 0.8 seconds.
secrete fluid
When the orgasm is about to come, the vagina will contract regularly, and at the same time, it will secrete a lot of love fluid. In addition, women will ejaculate in the vagina after reaching orgasm. This is because there are many glands next to the urethra, especially the vagina. When the front wall is stimulated, they secrete fluid.
Symptoms subside
After the end of the married life, the reaction of the genitals will not disappear immediately, but gradually relax due to the tense state, and the blood vessel congestion will gradually dissipate. Usually, this process takes 5-10 minutes, and the color of the tract is restored. The process takes 10-15 minutes.
what a woman reacts to when she orgasms
moan
This is the most obvious reaction of a woman to orgasm. Usually, when a woman orgasms, the sound of the voice will change, and it will become very strong, some will become louder, and some will suddenly have no sound, and it may Want to sing the feeling that the high pitch can't go up.
Shortness of breath
Generally, when women orgasm, their breathing will become very rapid, and at the same time, there will be suffocation, and the heart rate will more than double. This state will not return to normal until the end of the orgasm.
bodily injury
There are two types of orgasm injuries, one is mental injury, and the other is physical injury. Mental injury is verbal stimulation, such as swearing, swearing, and physical injury is that women will unconsciously grab and bite and other actions. Some People may show expressions, twisted limbs, etc.
Favorable contraction
Although the first three reactions may not all appear, this kind of reaction will definitely appear. This is a natural physiological reaction. After the body is stimulated, it will naturally contract. Moreover, this kind of spasm is also a kind of spasm for men. Intense stimulation to make men orgasm.
