For men and women in the first night, it is inevitable to be nervous. During the first sex life, you may encounter many problems. For example, if you can't get in on the first night, it is a big problem. Then, what should you do if you can't get in on the first night? Let's find out together.
What should I do if I can't get in at the first night?
1. Don't presume
Considering the coming of the first sexual intercourse, there will be some tension in the hearts of both parties, and girls often worry about how painful the first sexual intercourse is, due to excessive fear of this pain, many Strange idea, in fact, you don't have to regard this feeling of fullness as pain at all. If you think it is a combination of strong feelings, there may be different results.
2. Do enough foreplay
Expecting sex for the first time, and worrying that due to lack of understanding of physiology, boys cannot distinguish between urethral opening and vaginal opening, which is caused by wrong operations. Therefore, they should learn some common sense knowledge, and at the same time, they should have enough sex life. Foreplay, such as caressing the wife moderately, with gentle movements, pay attention to the rhythm, and wait until the vaginal opening is naturally opened and feels moist before entering.
3. The man's duration is too short
This is what troubles many men on the first night, and it makes them feel a great shock. However, in fact, this is a normal phenomenon. For the first time, the state of men is in a state of high excitement. In addition, the self-control ability is not mentioned. Exercising, it's easy to "push a thousand miles", and it's over in minutes.
When this happens, don't worry, don't be nervous, slowly accumulate experience, and achieve success next time and next time.
4. Don't be too hasty
Similarly, because there is not much experience, men are very easy to get excited. Therefore, the whole person will be too impatient. This situation often makes it more difficult to enter. Relax first, don't enter in a hurry, and fully communicate with the woman, at least 10 minutes. It is very important to control your agitated emotions, and then enter little by little.
5. Choose the easiest pose
There is no need to pursue any skills in the first sex life. The simplest sex life posture is that men go up and women go down. At the same time, for convenience, a pillow can be placed under the female body to help open the vaginal opening and make it as wide as possible. , which can make it easier for men to enter and reduce resistance.
6. Penis pain after the end
Some men will feel pain in the penis after the first pass. This is mostly because the penis is congested a lot after erection, and the blood return function is relatively weak, causing the penis to feel distended and painful for a short time after sexual intercourse. Usually, this pain will disappear after 3 hours. It disappears on its own, no need to worry too much.
7. Don't pursue too much
For the inexperienced parties, there is no need to pursue too many things, such as female orgasm, or excessive pursuit of two people to achieve orgasm together, or must allow themselves to last for a long time, two people only need to actively cooperate , the man should not go on a rampage, and the woman should try to relax as much as possible.
