The relationship between couples is also gradual. Even if you love each other again, it is impossible to know the bottom line on the first date. The following editor reveals the normal progress of boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Stage 1: Attract each other
The reason why boys and girls fall in love is because they are attracted to each other. At this time, both parties feel that the other party is a luminous existence. At this stage, you have a fatal attraction to both of you. This magnetic field makes you feel in love. And can be vigorous for love.
Stage 2: Be able to accept each other's shortcomings
After a period of time together, you will begin to understand each other. There is no fatal attraction at the beginning. The shortcomings of the other party begin to be exposed, but love can tolerate the shortcomings of the other party. Although you know the shortcomings of the other party, you still like it. He also accepts his imperfection.
Stage Three: Open Your Heart
At the beginning, both of them will leave the good side to each other, but no one is perfect, and the sublimation of feelings lies in the deep communication in the soul.
At this stage, you have already begun to show your negative energy such as weakness and lack of courage to both parties, but the other party will not despise you, but will accompany you out of the predicament and communicate with you to overcome various life problems. At this time, in addition to lovers, you are still spiritual comfort.
Stage 4: When Mutual Respect
At this stage, you will not start laughing at each other because you are familiar with each other's various flaws. There is no large-scale damage or positive energy. You both know how to encourage each other and respect each other. The two continued to warm up their feelings as they embraced each other.
Stage 5: The Longer The More Happy
The two of you are already very familiar with each other and know everything about each other, so you don't need to hold them in front of each other. Even two people can stay at home with snacks and watch movies, or girls go to Taobao and boys play games.
Both of them do their own things, they don't feel lonely, they feel very happy with each other's company. At this stage, you have the most comfortable way of getting along, and at the same time, you will feel that it is really beautiful to accompany each other.
Stage 6: Calm Problem Solving
There are always many problems in the relationship between two people. The pressures of life and the influence of outsiders will make your mood worse, and even cause two people to fall into a quarrel.
At this stage, although you will quarrel, you don't think about separation. Wait until you've calmed down, have a good adult-minded talk, and work it out. Not a naive cold war, not the kind of "he said, you listen to me explain. She said, I don't listen, I don't listen".
Stage 7: Occasionally create romance and surprises
After a long time, love will always be dull, but at this time, you will occasionally create some romance, such as having a candlelight dinner on the anniversary, such as giving a surprise on the other party's birthday.
These rituals will keep the feelings fresh all the time, and they will not die of dullness and passion.
How to deal with sexual relations between boyfriend and girlfriend?
Many girls ran into the counseling room and asked only one question: "My boyfriend wants to have a relationship with me, what should I do?" I think you may have been confused by this question too.
There are many couples who break up because girls don't want to have sex with their boyfriends, or boys insist on having sex with girls.
How to deal with sexual relations between boyfriend and girlfriend
On this issue, the gender gap is quite stark. Because there is a clear difference between the happiness and the price paid by both parties.
Obviously, boys are happier, while girls are at greater risk both physically and morally.
There is a socio-psychological street survey, in which two men and women with attractive external conditions are selected, and random strangers of the opposite sex are found on the street to strike up a conversation. Just ask three questions:
1. Would you like to date me?
2. Would you like to come and sit at my house?
3. Would you like to have sex with me?
The survey results are interesting, on the first question, 50% of both men and women agreed; but on the second question, only 6% of women agreed, while 69% of men agreed;
On the third question, 75% of men agreed, and none of women agreed. Obviously, women are very cautious when it comes to the latter two possible sexual relationships, while men don't mind unfamiliar and short-term sexual relationships.
This shows the difference in "sexual strategies" between men and women. Men's safety needs for places, conditions, and objects to have sex are significantly lower than women's, and therefore it is easier to raise sexual needs in the relationship between the sexes.
For most women, they believe that "sex" is about being in a long-term relationship, and women focus more on emotional fidelity. Men are more concerned with physical loyalty.
