Do girls feel pain or cool for the first time? For the first time, women are much, much more important than men, and it is an important step for a girl to become a woman. So how do women feel about the first time?
Some women don't feel good about their first experience, not because they are disgusted with the matter itself, but because the object of the first sexual relationship is not a husband but a lover, and the psychological pressure is too great: "My first time was not with my husband. . At that time I was not small.
I remember when we kissed I was scared and hated people, thinking he was the one who hurt me. I think it is a kind of instinctual fear, which is invisibly related to the Chinese education I received since I was a child.
At first, I rejected this matter. He begged me, but I always refused. In the end, I just couldn't refuse. In fact, his traditional moral values are also very strong. We are just normal boyfriend and girlfriend, he has a wife. I'm still very serious about the first time. "
Although women feel very different about their first sexual experience, most of them take it very seriously, because it is, after all, the "first time" in their life experience.
There are many "firsts" in a person's life. I remember a mother said how she observed her child's "firsts" with joy: the first time to speak, the first time to walk, the first time to read and so on. .
However, in the minds of many women, the first sex life has a different meaning from other "first times" - losing virginity, becoming an "adult", and becoming a different kind of person from before;
This feeling should be seen as primarily psychological rather than physical. That is to say, the difference between this "first time" and other "first times" mainly comes from social norms, from the special meaning that society assigns to sexual behavior (such as the concept of virginity, etc.).
The first time I had sex was very painful, especially painful. I really accept it entirely for love, because love has to be endured and given. He couldn't bear it anymore and said, just look at your pain.
After I did it for the first time, I felt that everyone in the world had changed. When you see a person on the street, you will think, he will do that thing at night, as if you have seen another side of the person. "
"After we got married, our sex life was always unsuccessful. It took several days before we succeeded. There was no pleasure, but only psychological satisfaction."
For the first time, I felt nothing but pain. There is a feeling that I have become an adult from now on. "The first time we didn't feel anything, we felt a little nervous, not very painful, and came over in a daze.
