When people reach a certain age, it is natural to get involved in the realm of adults, including the affairs between men and women. And the relationship between men and women, from the beginning of love, will experience from shyness to familiar physical contact, and finally to the same bed.
Many couples will have all kinds of embarrassment at the first time. The most embarrassing thing is that the woman is too painful and can't get in. How to deal with such an embarrassing situation at the beginning of the night?
The first time was too painful, what should I do if I couldn't get in?
The reason why it is difficult to get in the first time is first because the woman’s private parts are too tight and the girl is nervous, so it is difficult to enter, secondly, there may be insufficient foreplay, insufficient lubricant, and another may be entering the wrong place ( inserted into the urethra).
In fact, this is not a matter of working hard or not. It is a matter of angle and technique. The first time is basically a man on top and a woman on the bottom. Put a pillow under the woman's buttocks, and it's easy to get in. Try to increase the amount of foreplay and allow the vagina to be well lubricated. If it still doesn't work, try using your fingers first, then slowly expand, and finally insert.
Netizen case
1. It was the first time with my husband after being married for two months. We tried several times, but gave up because I was very painful. But when I tried it for the first time, I bleed a little. If the hymen has been ruptured, the pain in the interview should not be painful. I pushed my husband away subconsciously, but it has not been successful so far.
2. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night, but it still hurts if I can't stab me in, because my boyfriend was afraid of my pain and didn't continue. Later, when I took a bath, I found that there was a small pool of blood on my underwear, and there was no blood at noon today. .
Analysis: It was like this the first time. I couldn't get in all the time and there was a feeling of tearing. After trying again, it was very painful. I slowly pushed and inserted. If you feel uncomfortable or painful the first time, don't do it the next day. It will be better if you do it again in a few days. It can't be rushed.
The embarrassment of the first night committed in those years
1. (Male) I didn't get in for a long time, and it hurt my dick. Later, the female voted to use her hands. For the first time, she actually helped me solve it with her hands.
2. (Male) Can I say that a bra bothered me for half an hour, OCD is too painful. I couldn't solve it, I had no experience for the first time, and I turned off the lights. Damn obsessive-compulsive disorder, I didn't expect to push it directly at that time.
3. (Male) Ben dick is very talented. The first time he worked for an hour, his big toe was torn and there was blood on the sheets. The next day, the woman thought she was bleeding every day.
4. (Male) She farted, which made me not.
