about the groom: The groom should properly restrain his eagerness for success and avoid being rude and reckless. Before the contact with the sexual organs, it should be gentle, considerate, caress the bride vigorously, relieve the bride's tension and doubts, and arouse her sexual impulse. After the bride's feelings and sexual impulses have reached a certain level, the vulva is moistened before intercourse. During sexual intercourse, the groom should control his impulses and move slowly and softly. If one fails, try several times.
about the bride: The bride should overcome tension and fear, and cooperate with the groom happily, so as to relax the vaginal muscles and facilitate the smooth progress of sexual intercourse. If the hymen ruptures and the pain occurs, the bride can bend her legs upward and separate, hold it with her hands, and hold her breath downward to relieve the pain.
Wedding night, specifically pay attention to the following points
1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene
On your wedding night, both you and your husband should wash your genitals with warm water and neutral soap. The newlyweds are busy and tired due to purchasing items for marriage and entertaining relatives and friends. The men's smegma and the women's vaginal secretions increase. If they are not cleaned, it is very unsanitary and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.
2. New tricks for newlyweds
Try something surprising on your wedding night. If you can use some qingqu supplies at the wedding moment, it will definitely make this first night more perfect. For example, LELO's Ina 2 makes the vibration of the machine bring the most exciting feeling. If he is cool, he will also be visually teased. It can be said to be a good choice for foreplay.
3. Close cooperation
At the beginning of sex life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman is more obvious, the psychological state is more complicated, and the spirit is a little nervous. You have to ask your husband to move gently, and if it fails, you can try several times. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, relax her mind actively, arouse sexual excitement quickly, have more vaginal secretions, and have a good lubricating effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse, as well as the pain caused by the hymen being scratched.
4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen
After the hymen is ruptured, there is some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. It should be wiped with sterile gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have intercourse every 2-3 days to prevent the wound from becoming inflamed. If the hymen ruptures and bleeds a lot and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.
5. Correctly treat premature ejaculation
For the first intercourse, the man may fail due to premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.
Lovemaking Tips for Newlyweds
1. Don’t go deep for the first time
Some grooms think that the deeper and harder the penetration, the easier it is for the bride to be satisfied. In fact, generally speaking, this is only the case for a long time after marriage, _ and not only because of the deep penetration, but because the husband's pubic hair can stimulate the wife's clitoris.
For the first night, the groom should first gently stroke the clitoris (focus on lubrication), wait until it is fully raised and enlarged before starting sex. During sex, the groom should pay attention to rubbing, pressing and rubbing, not just strong impact. In addition, it is best to insert once in the first night, and then use other sexual lifestyles, so that the bride has a short period of recovery and adaptation after the hymen rupture.
2. Leg posture should be proper
The groom should understand that nine times out of ten a woman's orgasm is due to the proper stimulation of his clitoris (above the vaginal opening, where the two labia minora meet). However, the clitoris is usually covered by the clitoral foreskin, which is only exposed when a woman enters a state of sexual excitement. So having sex without waiting for the bride to get excited is very difficult to get him to orgasm. It is said that most people have sex in the way of men on top and women on the bottom. If the legs are not separated, it is very difficult to properly stimulate the bride's clitoris. Therefore, whether the groom's movements are violent or not has little effect on whether the bride reaches orgasm.
3. The posture should be regular
Some brides are also able to stimulate their clitoris or adopt more comprehensive sexual positions. Of course, a bride who has an orgasm on the first night is completely free or more open. Sex life is incredibly rich, not just penetrative sex. A woman's nipples and breasts are the second most sensitive areas on the surface of his body. Proper stimulation here can also trigger his response very quickly. many women are able to orgasm simply because they are properly stimulated here.
4. Concentrate on making love
The sex between two people can often not be established in an impure state. In other words, the two people in the process of making love must focus on their own attention and give each other a kind of complete respect! Of course, some deviant sexual fantasies are exceptions. Sexual fantasies can increase the staying power of passion. Don't forget who the person you are doing with yourself is, so as not to call the wrong name in a hurry.
5. Don’t be in a hurry
The process of sex can't be very urgent from beginning to end, but few people notice it. Durex reminds you to enjoy the tactile enjoyment brought by foreplay, add some steps to the daily routine and prolong the exploration time, which can make the fun for both parties more lasting, take your time and enjoy the process slowly.
