With the improvement of people's health awareness. The topic of vaginal relaxation after childbirth is not new. And there are also many ways to solve postpartum vaginal relaxation. But why are so many expectant mothers still worried about vaginal relaxation? In fact, it's all because of my husband.
Psychologists say: The generation of human emotions comes from caring about certain things.
The reason why women worry about vaginal relaxation after childbirth is actually because they are worried that their husbands will despise them because of vaginal relaxation problems, and even have a marriage crisis.
Is it the woman's fault for vaginal laxity after childbirth?
Women don't care, men don't love, women don't shrink yin, men have to worry...
Seeing these words, some men were dissatisfied, and some women were displeased. But reality exists.
Regarding the problems of vaginal relaxation, most of them are about how women should shrink the vagina and how to solve the problem of vaginal relaxation. But here I just want to ask men one thing: For a woman who has given you her youth and has the crystallization of love with you, will you give up easily because of the lower body?
A responsible man said: No
But a long night without the intention to sleep, a marriage without sex lacks a little vitality after all. So if the wife's vagina is loose after giving birth, what should be the best thing to do as a husband?
First of all: calm down if you find vaginal relaxation during postpartum intercourse
Don't make a fuss if you find that your wife's vagina is loose during the first intercourse after giving birth. In addition, don't feel embarrassed or have strange emotions when you have sex during intercourse. Otherwise, it will be easily detected by women's sensitive nerves, which will create a "self-consciousness". A kind of psychological cycle of being disliked".
When you find that your wife's vagina is loose, you first need to give understanding, and if the wife has psychological pressure, you need to be properly relieved. Of course, if the wife does not take the initiative to mention the problem of vaginal relaxation, it is best not to take the initiative to point it out as a husband. You can gather some common sense about this first.
Second: If your wife asks you: Is it loose that you don't love me anymore. What would you do.
Faced with this kind of topic, you first need to respond affirmatively to love. There is no need to hesitate. Second, she needs to express her hope and her long-lasting desire. In addition, you can also praise how sexy and attractive she is from the side. Women need recognition. In this way, without the stimulation of marital crisis, the woman will actively recover in order to understand her husband.
Furthermore: in the process of recovery, the wife also needs to give some help as a husband
It takes time for the wife to insist on doing levator ani exercise, contracting exercise or cooperating with Qiandaisi during the recovery period. At this time, as a husband, you can take the initiative to undertake some housework or help take care of the children. In addition, during the recovery period of the wife, you can also move your hands, cook, and make some food for the wife to nourish yin and nourish yin. And in order to ensure the effect, don't woo your wife frequently during the recovery period, and you need to pay attention to hygiene if you have the same room. Do enough *** and so on.
Finally: Women tend not to get tight right away during the recovery process, and care and encouragement should be given at this time.
Postpartum relaxation has become the most distressing problem for women. There is no way to find a safe and effective way to reduce Yin, and the psychological pressure is very high. At this time, if the husband can help his wife find a safe and effective method. Your wife will be very considerate and warm to you.
In this way, there is no need for any conflict, it is as simple as that to solve vaginal relaxation and find happiness.
