It is said that a harmonious married life can not only solve the physical needs of both parties, but also maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, we often say that a harmonious married life is the "lubricant" for maintaining marriage and relationships.
But what exactly is harmony, and what is the standard for this harmony? The topics of how often couples have sex and how often couples have sex for a few minutes have become the topics most couples want to know about.
In fact, whether it is the length of the couple's sex life, or how often they do it, there is no exact data.
The survey results can only be taken for a rough time. Let's take a detailed look at how long is the husband and wife's sex life normal? And some guidance on related knowledge.
Couples live a few minutes as normal
The time of a normal couple's life is generally 5-15 minutes. Of course, each couple's physical condition, sexual habits, etc. are not the same, that is, the same couple, the specific circumstances and environmental conditions of each sexual life are also different. Therefore, it is difficult to set a standard for how long the duration of each sexual life is appropriate.
There are many reasons for the short sex life of men. For example, psychological factors or emotions may lead to premature ejaculation and shorten the sex life. However, it is necessary to be vigilant that many male disease factors can also lead to short sex life. In the case of premature ejaculation or ejaculation too fast, you should go to a regular inspection as soon as possible to find out the cause and treat it symptomatically, so as not to delay the disease and cause more serious consequences.
Whether the sex life time is right or wrong is a morbid factor. A harmonious sex life should make both parties feel happy and can achieve orgasm. It is normal to have sexual pleasure. Some people think that the longer the sex life lasts, the more sexual satisfaction can be obtained. This view is unscientific. Sexual physiology research shows that the duration of one-off life is very long, which is not good for the bodies of both parties.
During sexual life, the sexual organs of both men and women are in close contact and activity in a highly congested state. If the time is too long, it is easy to cause various diseases. It is clinically confirmed that if the sexual life lasts for too long, women are more likely to cause urinary infection, menstrual disorders, etc. , Men easily lead to prostatitis and so on.
It can be seen that the longer the married life is, the better. Of course, it is not normal for less than 3 minutes, and the sex life is too short. Clinically, this situation is called premature ejaculation.
How often is it normal for couples to have sex?
A reference formula made by foreign scholars based on the influence of age factors on sexual ability. When calculating, just multiply the ten-digit of your age by 9, the ten-digit of the product is the number of days that a sex cycle lasts, and the one-digit is the proper sex frequency.
Taking a 30-year-old as an example, his sex frequency should be "3×9=27", that is, it is healthy to have sex 7 times in 20 days, about once every 3 days; the sex frequency of a person in his 40s should be "4". × 9 = 36", that is, you should have sex 6 times in 30 days, about once every 5 days; and people in their 50s are "5 × 9 = 45"
That is, have sex 5 times in 40 days, about once every 8 days. But sex life is, after all, a matter of affection, and is largely influenced by passion and physical strength. It is impossible to follow the shackles of rules and regulations, and your own feelings are the most important.
Sexual medicine research shows that the frequency of sexual intercourse in youth often determines the frequency of sexual activity in middle and old age. That is to say, if he has more sex when he is young, his sexual needs will not be too low in middle-aged and old age.
There are three factors that determine the frequency of sex:
Feelings: How you feel about your partner is a determinant of your libido. If you are no longer interested in him (her), or even full of resentment, your libido is definitely not high.
Mood: A depressed, stressful, anxious person finds it difficult to become interested in sex because sex requires passion and relaxation.
Age: Research shows that male libido peaks between 18-25 years old and women between 35-45 years old. After that, libido gradually diminishes.
If couples are in different age groups, the frequency of sex is likely to be inconsistent. At this time, the couple should understand and support each other. In fact, sex is not just about the frequency of sexual intercourse. A healthy sex life includes masturbation, sexual dreams, orgasmic play without intercourse, all of which can bring an orgasm experience.
