1. Preface to the Breakthrough
1. I am in favor of premarital sex. C-cup suddenly wanted to tell a story...I had a boyfriend in my virginity. In my education, sex is a shameful thing, it's dirty for a man to have sex with you, and it's pathetic to be a non-virgin. At that time, I was also conservative. Like most girls, I regarded chastity as my most precious possession, and I thought that if a man really loved me, he would definitely not want to blaspheme me.
based on this sexual dictatorship, and a series of concepts derived from it, what should have been a good first love, I turned into a superb ex.
... Suddenly I don't want to talk about the past.
Anyway, until one day I stepped over this threshold, and finally saw the legendary world that is irredeemable.
Huh, it doesn't seem to be any different except for greater freedom.
But I know that if I hadn't taken that step, I certainly wouldn't be as focused on myself as I am now, and I wouldn't be so fond of myself.
From the moment I walked out the door, it seemed as if the whole world of my spiritual world had changed for it. I no longer dwell on sexual attitudes. Suddenly I began to understand a lot of the truth of life. The whole world began to reorganize and appeared in a simpler form. Slowly I became the me in front of you.
... Of course I'm not saying that you're the same as me when you're broken.
2. I am in favor of chastity after marriage, and I am in favor of sexual freedom. Everyone is responsible for their own sexual behavior, attitudes, and ideas. Your body is not responsible for anyone other than itself.
I don't approve of the kind of foolish behavior of borrowing a film to force a marriage and borrowing a child to force a marriage.
I also don't agree with the stupid idea of different women who fall asleep every day asking their daughter-in-law to be a virgin.
If you don't love someone deeply, don't marry him. In a long marriage, there is an endless stream of uneasy feelings.
If you really love someone, you don't have to marry him. It's good to get him, but he can't get it, but I beg Zeng Youyou to rest on his heart.
Of course above, you have your freedom.
3. Does the first time really matter? As an experience, yes, it matters. You will forget a lot in a few years, but you may still remember the pain that ripped through your body, and the pleasure that a little unfamiliar evoked in you. You may not still love the man, but you may still remember him going through it with you.
So when it comes to the first time, you should be cautious and not frivolous. This is good. I give you ten thousand likes.
But things can't go too far. If you put too much emphasis on the first time, "I gave it to him, I will be his woman all my life", it may make you make a lot of wrong decisions. For example, the direction of life should be constant, such as condoning each other's harm, such as being inappropriate and still embarrassing each other.
No matter how many people you see on the Internet claiming to have a "virgin complex", believe in yourself, you won't find such a person.
The reason why those heart-wrenching evildoers outperform many women is that they know that living a wonderful and beautiful life is far better than defending a hymen.
4. The above three points can be expanded to write a thesis. But as a tech guy, why would I say this? The answer is simple. Because of the broken place... Some people may think that this will poison the ignorant girl.
Believe in girls.
(After reading some comments reprinted outside the station, I complained: Without my strategy, wouldn't virgins become non-virgins?)
2. Text
1. How to get girls to accept sex.
Sexual relations with underage women are strictly prohibited!
Next, I default the girl is your partner.
I don't approve of men bringing up sex at the beginning of a relationship. See the first paragraph of my foreword, the world in the eyes of most unmanned girls is like this: please I am a pure virgin, I want to leave it to my husband, a man who loves me will not want to blaspheme me, otherwise it is covetousness My body is a satyr.
① Warm up the love. When she believes you are serious about dating her, she will let her guard down. You can increase your chances of being alone. Before being alone, you can talk to her about topics you both are interested in, listen to songs you both like, watch movies you both like, talk about books you both like, create a relaxed and happy environment, and bring her efforts to yours. world, and make her familiar with your world. When she is familiar with your world, it will not divide your body and spirit. So it will not become your body occupying her body, but the union of spirit and flesh.
② Increase physical contact with each other more. Hug her and kiss her often. Although women have sensitive zones all over their bodies, I would recommend that you touch those less sensitive zones first. For example, he often pinches her face, nose, and earlobes casually, touches the back of her head and the back of her neck when kissing, clasps her fingers when holding hands, and occasionally sneaks a sneak attack on her lips when chatting alone with her, gives a lipstouch, and immediately Withdrawal...and so on.
Teacher Q&A: Do you understand where these things are connected?
I know you don't understand.
These recruits are called: There is warmth and no pornography.
③You can try to introduce her to this seductive normal world. Honestly I don't think most girls with a normal education would struggle this far, but I'd assume she's hard. Occasionally, you can watch some movies with meat scenes. There are many Japanese and Korean erotic movies under the banner of "revealing human nature". You hold this banner and take her to see the uncensored version; in your alone session You can add a little more physical contact. You can use the kissing technique in my second article. If the situation allows, you can also use the burning part of the first article; you can no longer only have the warm side forever, occasionally It is best to suggest to her the sexual needs of men, and it is best to make her understand that if a man does not love a woman, he will not touch her body and withdraw his hand.
How to express, all depends on acting.
④ Choose a good day to show her your sincerity. I guess not so strenuous.
2. Preparations
Speaking of good days above, you can choose a festival. Anyway, we Chinese celebrate all festivals as Valentine's Day.
If you ignore this complaint, choose Valentine's Day, Tanabata, Singles' Day, anniversaries, birthdays of any party, the eve of separation, and all kinds of days that may trigger emotions such as anticipation, excitement, happiness, sadness, and reluctance. Such days are usually unreliable for reason.
①Itinerary
I don't recommend going straight to the point. Virgin girls are always cautious and reserved. On the one hand, they will be entangled in the positioning of the relationship between the two after sex, but they will hesitate at the last moment. You must be as warm and attentive as always to make her feel willing to sacrifice. (It is inevitable that there will still be a feeling of sacrifice, you can only hope that she will get better slowly.) On the other hand, you are still bound by too strong a sense of morality. You need to get rid of the "this is a sneaky thing" from her. feel, so you have to be open and honest.
a. Choose a good restaurant. Most girls still don't like to eat alone with their boyfriends. If the girl likes to eat western food, it is better if she can drink some wine. There is no need to persuade you to get drunk, it is good to relax with a little alcohol. Don't overeat.
b. After dinner, you can talk about relaxed and pleasant topics, you can watch a love movie, and increase the tenderness and dependence of the girl. My sister is just right, the night is long, why hurry to share the tent?
c. After all, it is the first night. As a day worth remembering, it is a correct choice to book a good hotel in advance. I guess most of the people who are still trying to find a solution don't have a single house. The hotel is safe and convenient, and you don't have to clean up the mess afterward. Selection criteria, within the scope of one's own financial capacity, find a relatively high-grade non-business hotel (business hotels are too professional and not enough to relax). Even better in a bigger city, finding a love hotel is not difficult.
It would be perfect if she could see a bouquet of flowers on the hotel table after checkin. But I think it's too advanced for you guys. This kind of high-level question is left to the students who have spare capacity for learning.
②Prepare items
a. Condoms. Although Durex is well known, I think its friction coefficient is slightly larger, which is not very suitable for young girls. Generally speaking, virgin girls are not very moist and hydrated, and friction will cause pain for each other. Okamoto, it's super thin and easy to use. (Given this traffic, can I charge for advertising?)
It's the first night of being with each other, and both men and women will feel a little pain when they try to have sex. Not to mention the pain of women. For the first time, when a man has a full erection, his glans is pressed against a foreign body, and he can't get in. That kind of pain is not very pleasant. Still wear a condom. The pain was relieved a little, and the embarrassment of being shot at the door after one or two hits was avoided.
b. Lubricant. The reason is that you may not be aware of the girl's body and cannot provoke her lust. Or some girls have less water and dryness. If it's too dry, it will cause both of you pain. And even if it is to feel more comfortable for the first time, a little lubrication is also a very good choice. Probably near the condom counter there will be this thing. If not, go to the pharmacy and ask. Any kind of body lubricant will do, the difference is not very big. Why don't I recommend brands to you? Because the landlord is born to be a sister juice, I have never used such a thing as lubricant...
c. Wet wipes. Most hotels don't have this. Its biggest effect is that you do a sweetending to the girl after the sex is over. After you have withdrawn from the body of the girl, don't rush to recall your lost virginity, take out the wet tissue, very gently from the bottom of her buttocks near the perineal opening, wipe towards the vaginal opening, where blood and love fluid may be mixed , The technique is gentle, and after wiping one sheet, use another sheet for cleaning. Try not to let a girl who has just experienced tearing pain jump out of bed and run to the bathroom in a hurry, this story is too sad.
d. If you want to get full marks for being considerate and attentive, you might as well prepare some Andover spray for anti-inflammatory. If the girl feels very painful, you can spray a little near the vaginal opening. Take it easy.
e. If you are more pressing than the landlord, think about the rest.
③ Preliminary work
a. Make sure you don't faint.
b. Don't bring your computer to watch AV, girls usually don't talk so hard on the first night.
c. Turn off the phone when you enter the room.
d. Go take a shower each. Remember to brush your teeth.
e. Don't count the safety period. Unless you're really sure it's safe. Don't take emergency contraceptives, they're pretty nasty. When menstruation is disordered, the girl will be very panicked, the menstrual blood is dark red, but at that time it will be bright red. Don't deduct points here.
f. Learn about the physiological structure and make sure you can find the vaginal opening.
g. Finally, do a good job in psychological construction. Don't try to be successful the first time.
3. Main topic
①Foreplay
A good foreplay can fully arouse the girl's desire and enjoy the pleasure in the next sex.
Dim the lights a little, hug the girl to the edge of the bed and sit down. I watched a love movie just now, right? You can look into her eyes and say, "I saw you watching the movie seriously, I really want to lean in and kiss you." It aroused her inner feelings about the love movie. Then took advantage of the opportunity to hold her face and kiss her. When kissing, it can be considered to be divided into three parts. The first is lipstouch. The lips are slightly separated, and the lips are used as the main force, and the lower lip of the other party is slightly pressed, and then come back in a moment, and make eye contact. Create an affectionate, reluctant, unfinished feeling. Since you are so reluctant to part with your mind, then kissing with love and affection will make the emotional process very natural and reasonable, and the girl will feel your growing emotions, thus deepening the tenderness and attachment. After a slightly longer warm kiss, you can enter the tongue kissing session.
What is your purpose for the tongue kiss? It is to tease the lust of the girl.
So what you need to do is to bring desire into the girl's emotions. Find an angle and smoothly enter the girl's mouth. The essence of tongue kissing for the purpose of provoking lust is from slow to fast. And you have to let the sister paper feel this rhythm.
At the beginning of the tongue kiss, it might be more playful. The tip of the tongue brushed lightly over her tongue, from the left side of the tongue tip to the right side of the tongue tip. It is best to mobilize the girl to imitate your movements. When the tip of her tongue is occasionally pressed over, you can use a little bit of force to bite the tip of her tongue slightly. Then after she retracts, the tip of the tongue catches up near her teeth, and she will bite the tip of your tongue when she reacts. At this time, give some positive feedback to encourage the girl, and the back and forth will gradually give rise to interest. Occasionally, she can withdraw her tongue from her mouth, use a mouth with a smile (about six or seven teeth in a smile), lightly bite her lower lip with her teeth, or send out a slight light from her throat. Moans with a smile help each other relax and become more engaged. During this process, you can hold the back of her neck with one hand to prevent her from suddenly retreating, and the other hand can put your arms around her waist.
Remember to find a certain opportunity and feel that the girl's emotions have been fully invested in the tongue kiss, deepen your breathing a little bit, add a little strength to your lips and tongue, and at the same time increase the speed, and stick your tongue deeper, the girl will feel your erotic desire. Pick it up, in this two-way activity, she will also be brought up to speed by you, so that she will be short of breath. At this time, you can free on the girl's body, and put a little effort on the legs, and use a certain leaning and kissing action to put the girl on the bed without a trace.
Don't give her time to react, keep your lips from her lips, and continue the intense kiss just now, and everything will naturally proceed while she is dizzy.
After falling down, don't stop the tongue kiss, the hand can violate the girl's chest head-on, first keep it outside the clothes, gently knead the girl's chest with your hands, take care of both sides a little, and then move to the waist and abdomen, feel a girl dizzy At the moment, put your hand in from under the clothes, gently push the bra up, and successfully climb to the top of the mountain. Don't stop the tongue kiss, and don't give the girl a chance to speak. Kiss her dizzy.
If the tongue kissing process takes ten to fifteen minutes, the girl should be in a dizzy state.
Now it's time to take care of your ears. See the Burning and Blowjob section of Part 3. If you must know the time...you can give about ten minutes here.
②Break
After the foreplay part is done, apply a little lubricant to the girl's vaginal opening. Please keep the penis in a state of eruption, take out the condom and put it on. I would recommend keeping the lights on, so that the virgin can see the vaginal opening.
Girls can also forgive a little. This may be the first time in his life that he has faced such a complex matter as a female vagina, and he has to be required to hit him in the dark... If you don't want to be accidentally exploded, turn on the light.
a) Missionary postures
Find the vaginal opening, hold JJ with your hands, press your thumb slightly on the glans from above, grind and test a few times at the vaginal opening, and after the girl feels a little excitement from the foreign body, press the glans slightly with your thumb. , the girl will scream pain. Pause for a few seconds for her to get used to it. Then she pressed her thumb against the glans head a little further, and she would still cry out in pain, stop, wait a second or two, and then push in again.
I feel that when two-thirds of the glans enters the vagina, I push and insert a little bit. Beginners on the road, please drive at very low speed.
She'll be screaming pain, but it'll be a little less painful after a while. Please grasp when she looks a little less painful, and debug JJ to a very hard state with lust or manual stimulation, and insert it to the end.
She must be screaming in pain. Stop and hold her for a while. Say something sweet. Do you want to teach love?
OK, it's broken.
If the hymen ruptures several times, it is not a good thing for the girl. The pain brought by each time will make her remember deeply, and if there are many times, it is easy to bring about inflammation.
So it was just a few seconds of severe pain. The pain will ease slightly after that. Then you can hold the girl and do the thrusting and thrusting movements with a slightly smaller amplitude first. The girl's screaming pain can be comforted a little with words or kisses, and continue to do it, otherwise she will only have the pain of the broken place in her memory, but there will be no pleasure in making love.
The amplitude can be gradually increased, and the frequency can also be faster. Young girls are always more responsive to quick thrusts and easier to gather pleasure. At this time, she will still have pain, but she will already begin to feel pleasure.
You can also slowly let your own pleasure accumulate, and slowly reach the critical point of ejaculation. There is no need to force the girl to orgasm, it actually feels quite relaxing...
This position is actually quite painful. But it has the advantage of being traditional enough that shy virgin girls can lie there still.
b) Girl of the pose
This pose is not too painful, but it is too active. I think it should be suitable for enthusiastic girls who take the initiative to seduce their boyfriends to bed.
First of all, one of you must know exactly where the vaginal opening is. The girl kneels on the man's waist with her legs apart, keeps her upper body upright, leaving the vertical length of JJ, asks the boy to hold JJ upright, and the girl aims at JJ with her vaginal opening. Debug it, after finding it, use JJ to hold the vaginal opening to prevent it from slipping open, the boy holds the girl's waist with both hands, and the girl needs to push down a little bit at this time to let the glans open the vaginal opening, the boy can feel the glans being pressed and squeezed The state of pressure is used to judge how far it has entered. Give the girl a little positive feedback, such as a little comfortable moan.
When the girl tried to swallow almost a penis head, she must have had a feeling of being penetrated. She pulled out a little bit and made a minimal thrust to stimulate her vaginal opening. The depth should not exceed the boundary of the coronal sulcus, and of course, the shallowest should not come out halfway, otherwise it will be difficult for you to enter again.
Grasp a certain moment when she feels a little relaxed, fix her waist with both hands, and pull down sharply, or try to push it up by yourself. But choose one of the two movements, don't do them at the same time, it's too deep, it's likely to hit the cervix near the cervix, so it will be more painful...
Alright, this is broken too.
c) Enter after posture
The back entry is not too painful. It depends on the level of psychological acceptance of the girl, and this can all be communicated.
The girl's back is facing up, lying on the bed, her legs are separated, her toes are more than shoulder width apart, and her hips are slightly raised, so that it is convenient for boys to find the vaginal opening. After the boy finds it, he inserts it according to the missionary method, and the rest is the same, just one front and one back.
The better thing about this pose is that it doesn't have to spread the legs like a missionary pose. Most virgin girls rarely have the opportunity to spread their legs so much, if she doesn't need the splits very much; secondly, there is no missionary. The formula is so deep, don't worry, as long as you are not the length of the lipstick, the break is enough.
③ Master a few key points: patience, cruelty, and explosiveness. In the early days of entering, you must be patient and wait for the girl to get used to it a little bit before deepening. After the glans has entered, find an opportunity to puncture it unexpectedly. When she was not mentally prepared for the pain, she was finished with pain. Don't tell her, I'm going to rush. After that, take out some man's charge, let her feel the pleasure brought by a little impact and friction. Generally speaking, it's a little comfortable, but if you have an orgasm... then you need a miracle.
Which pose is best, you ask? Choose for yourself. I told you the pros and cons.
You ask, what if it is half soft? What if you shoot right in?
Please go back and read [2. Main text → 2. Preparation work → ③ Preliminary work → g].
You ask, when will the second round come? Let the girl rest the night after the break. Generally speaking, the girl can accept a normal sex the next morning. Still a little sore. But already feel more pleasure.
④Aftermath work
When coming out of the girl's body, the thumb and index finger hold the root of the TT, so that your brother will not come out, the TT is still in the girl's body, and slowly retreat. Use the wet wipes you prepared to help the girl do the aftermath. The method is in [2. Text → 2. Preparations → ② Prepare items → c wet tissue]
4. Conclusion
Let's do some extracurricular reading: there must be some girls who actively want to make this night a good memory for themselves. It is recommended to find a better hotel, preferably with a double bathtub, or a larger single bathtub. In my years of experience, there is no girl who doesn't like soaking in a bathtub full of milk and rose petals. Some of the more beautiful courtship candles can be lit on the floor, on the dresser, or even in the entire room (I don't know why it's called a courtship candle...). Please purchase these materials by yourself. Light the candles first, put some soft music on your pad or phone, the knockoffs are fine...and pour the milk and rose petals into the tub while the water is running. You can gently undress the girl, rub her back, kiss her gently, hold her between your legs, try not to push her lower body, and enjoy this rare moment first. Try to touch her as much as possible, let her get acquainted with your body, and you can also guide her to get acquainted with your body. Don't you feel very warm and romantic? Rub each other's backs, hands and feet...
When the atmosphere is getting better, you can already do a little foreplay. Tongue kisses can be used, pay attention to creating a more psychedelic and romantic atmosphere, you can kiss her hand, lick her fingers one by one, and maintain eye contact.
Gently lift her leg, kiss her calf, go up to the knee, bend the knee back, few men know that this is also a woman's sensitive zone, and then the back of the thigh, extending to the thigh naturally inside. Depends on the water level...
Of course, you don't have to kiss all over the body, the area is quite large, and the saliva will be dry. Take care of several large areas on the body, which is considered to be kissing all over the body.
If you don't reject it personally, you can also start kissing from your toes, referring to the method of licking your fingers one by one. Your purpose is to arouse her excitement and lust. Passionate girls can also use this trick.
There is no need to force the steps to be followed, you can be flexible depending on the situation. You definitely know better about your partner's preferences and scales.
In the end, this extracurricular reading is actually the first night of a scheming landlord and a man.
Use feeling: like going to heaven, like going to hell. It's not in the world anyway.
Finally, let’s talk about the girl’s psychological construction: it’s actually not that painful. Many times, your brain exaggerates the degree of pain, relax your whole body, keep your mind open and accepting, and you will feel better. You know, you're not the only woman who has to deal with this.
This guide is only used for couples who are truly in love and voluntarily go to bed. Lawbreakers please detour. If you're trying to attack underage girls, please be rude.
Anyway, in the end, it is also the completion of the great harmony of life.
If the girl still cares a little about the broken place, she should be more considerate and take care of it. After all, he has been poisoned by years of education to destroy people's desires, and it is not easy to wake up for a while.
I hope you can feel the beauty of each other more and work together. Instead of using the girls as accumulated experience points.
[Painful PS: A woman's self-improvement should not have anything to do with the hymen. I hope all girls can pay attention to their own growth, travel, learn, meet more interesting people, and see a different world. Go and feel more what it means to be a human being, and then what it means to be a woman. 】
In the end, if you really can't improve your bearing, cultivation, knowledge, taste, appearance, and wealth, and you have to fall in love with a virgin complex man, then if you love to defend, just defend.
I wish you all the life you want.
