Is it important to find a virgin wife? There are also relatively clear views on this issue, but this is only for a certain reality. For example, on a psychological level, more men still have a virgin complex. Although this is a very contradictory question, I hope the answers from netizens will allow you to find your own answer in it.
Some netizens insist that you must be a virgin to find a wife
There are often netizens in the forum who insist that to marry a wife, you must be a virgin: "Isn't it now that you want monogamy? If the woman is not a virgin, it is unfair to the man who loves him. The person who loves him will also be unhappy in his heart. It feels so good... Who can bear the woman he loves deeply, who once stood naked in front of another man?" Some netizens threw a fierce argument: "If I find out that my wife is not a virgin when I get married, I will give her to her. killed……"
"Even if a man is nice to his wife who is not a virgin, he still has a shadow in his heart. After all, when he thinks of his wife having sex with other men before, he will definitely not feel good in his heart. Women, you need to understand why men care so much. Are you a virgin?" "If you're not a virgin! Wouldn't there be a shadow in your heart! I'm a man! Even if you really can't say it on the surface, you will never be happy in your heart! Don't you want the person you really love to live forever? Are they all living in the shadows?"
There are also netizens who hold opposite or neutral opinions
Netizen 1: I don't mind if I marry a wife.
Netizen 2: I have no concept of virgins since I was a child. My first crush was an English teacher of mine, Hui ethnicity, very mixed-race, mature and amorous. I know she has a husband. Later, I always felt that a woman looked comfortable, and it didn't matter whether she was a virgin or not.
Netizen 3: Anyway, that's my opinion, it doesn't matter whether you're a virgin or not.
Netizen 4: Looking for a wife, the main thing is to be able to spend the rest of your life together. That thing is just a physical difference.
Netizen 5: I think in the young age, everyone will take a lot of detours, hurt a lot of people, and blame themselves. After waiting for it to pass, I gradually feel that it is all life, and there is no need to regret and regret.
How many Chinese men can't marry virgins as wives?
According to the 80:20 theorem: In China, 80% of virgins are broken by 20% of men. In the end, only 20% of virgins are divided among 80% of men, but because the marriage is 1:1, 20% of virgins can only marry 20% of men. So there will be (80%-20%=60%) men who will marry wives who are not virgins.
It is a sadness to ask only women to be chaste
Female netizens counterattack, if true love is only for that layer of hymen, it is definitely a man's sorrow. "I really don't know what these guys think. When they're not married, they demand sex with their girlfriends. But they also demand that their wives be virgins. So are you? If you're not, you have What right to demand of others. Is that layer of woman's membrane that important to you?"
"It's right to pay attention to chastity, but it shouldn't go too far. How can a virgin's chastity be blasphemy? Isn't it caused by so many men? Why not hold men accountable? Why don't you care about a man's non-virginity? ?Social inequality! Thousands of years of traditional feudal thought is to bully women!"
"How many men are willing to listen to the woman tell the first time she gave another man before getting the woman? Know the white lie? History that no one knows is innocent. Men have a past, and women have it, Therefore, there is no need to care about the past, as long as the present and the future are good. Mature people do not ask about the past, smart people do not ask about the present, and open-minded people do not ask about the future.”
A virgin is not important, a tacit understanding of life is good
There are also male netizens who hit the nail on the head: "Men, it's enough to see a virgin, I don't care if my wife is a virgin or not, there is true love and passion in the bed, and can cooperate silently, which is something that neither virgins nor prostitutes can do. A virgin wife is a cruel and inhumane one. Don’t forget, most men have premature ejaculation, and most women are also cold-blooded. Men and women should also pay attention to matching. Marriage is unfortunate. Those who are antique are best to find an antique, and ideology is also very important."
Male netizens commented: "I am a man, and I think the future of a woman should be more important to me, not whether she is a virgin or not. Not being a virgin is also caused by those shameless men, which are already very traumatic and traumatic for women. It's unfair, don't let women shoulder all the responsibilities. Women who have been traumatized should be the ones who know how to cherish their feelings best."
Hymenoplasty meets man's vanity
In response to the "virgin plot" of many male netizens, female netizens retorted: "Sisters! What those ignorant men want is not a woman's sincerity, but a layer of film! Then, we will give them a layer of film! 300 yuan (you can also Bargaining) Most beauty salons can recreate the hymen! Let's unite and let those selfish and hateful men be stupid for a lifetime! After giving them a shroud, we can still give them a green hat, and they will think we are loyal, hahaha Ha ha……"
"Look, find, find the innocent virgin in your hearts! But be careful, be careful that you are just looking for a fake who has undergone hymen repair surgery, this kind of surgery exists specifically for your men, this is really your men's sorrow."
Few men stand on the side of women, "I'm also a man of the modern age. As a man, who doesn't want his wife to be a virgin? Looking at the real world, how many are virgins on their wedding night? It's all due to social ethos. So don't be hypocritical as a man, don't be selfish!"
Summary: The failure rate of love is always high. It is conservatively estimated that each person can only find true love after falling in love three times. Two-thirds of love fails. How can we expect to be a virgin under such circumstances? Men account for it. The cheapness of the physiological structure makes it impossible to identify whether it is the first time. A man with a virgin complex can never find a virgin. This is the deepest and irreversible tragedy of this era. As a kiln slave, there is still a day for his release. A man with a virgin complex will only feel that he has been enslaved by other men all his life. .
