1. The perfect cunnilingus technique for men
First of all, we must understand a few sensitive areas of women:
Of course, the first step is to do a good job of cleaning, otherwise sex will not be perfect: the sequence should be like this: you can put your arms around her first, and say a few love words to her, such as "you are so beautiful, you are very sexy" Kind of, let her feel comfortable and relaxed psychologically, and then start kissing her lips, ear beads, back of the ear, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, waist, pay attention to stay in the breast position for a longer time, because women's breasts It is also a very important sensitive area.
Guys, don't think that cunnilingus means that as soon as a woman goes to bed, you jump up and kiss her clitoris. Don't be so wolves. You must know that women's bodies are very slow to respond. Give them some time to adapt. The clitoris is absolutely sensitive. One part, if you stimulate it from the beginning, the effect will not be good.
At this point, the woman should feel a little numb all over, and you are beginning to approach her pussy. Begin to lightly swipe her thighs with her tongue, from the bottom of her labia majora at the base of her thighs, from bottom to top to her hip bones (left and right sides of the lower abdomen), repeat nearly ten times, women will feel very uncomfortable. Itching is very numb, and there will be a feeling of soreness near the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to swipe along your thigh to the position of Zusanli under the knee. Zusanli is also a sensitive point for women. If the other person's skin is tender, you can kiss this part a few times. If the other person's skin is poor, kiss It feels like sandpaper with your tongue, then forget it, go back and kiss, hee hee.
Return to the base of the thigh and repeat the movements taught above. This move is called "assisting" in the military. Treat women as "enemies and opponents" in bed. You must first distract the "enemy", take the initiative, and mobilize the feeling of the "enemy" to follow your tongue. Fight guerrilla warfare on any mountain (breast), hill (lower abdomen), ravine (root of thigh), forest (position of pubic pubic hair) in her body, and slowly you will feel that women begin to curl up, and their legs will swing involuntarily. Moaning sounds, and the vaginal opening of the more sensitive woman begins to become wet.
After the assist is completed (about ten minutes), start to switch to the main attack!
Through assists, the shyness of women has basically been overcome, and her psychological defenses have been eliminated. At this time, she will be in a state of refusing and welcoming, and men can also enter the main offensive position and start a frontal attack. At this time, women should take the initiative and separate their legs into a figure-eight shape. It is best to lean their legs back and expose their entire genitals in front of men. There is nothing shy about this. Men provide greater motivation and commitment.
When women raise and spread their legs, men must first conquer several important strongholds in the main attack direction, which are women's perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is the junction between the vagina and the anus of women. Although the skin of this part is very tight, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to lick this part lightly.
When kissing the bottom of a woman's thighs, women will feel the part of the vaginal opening from top to bottom soreness and numbness, and when kissing the perineum, women will feel a comfortable feeling of expansion from bottom to top. When kissing the female perineum, if you can overcome a greater psychological barrier, you can use a sudden attack to stick your tongue to the female anus to lick and touch, to ensure that the female will be screaming and excited at this time.
If you have a mental barrier, lick from the perineum all the way up to the female labia. At this time, women believe that most of the water will be like a spring. At this time, women's yin water is mostly transparent and relatively thin. If you like it, you can drink it (no joke), the female body has just secreted it, it will not dirty.
How should I kiss the labia? Don't do it at this time, use your tongue to pry the female's labia majora to the two sides (some women's labia majora are smaller, or when they are more excited, the labia may have separated by themselves); hold one of the female's labia, use the tongue Swipe it that is already in the mouth, taking care of both the inside and outside of the labia, and then change a labia, the action is the same. Finally, the body is slightly sideways, and your lips are parallel to the female labia. Gently put the two labia of the female into the mouth at the same time, suck them together, and use the tongue to insert and pull out from the middle of the two labia. will die comfortably.
At this time, it is time to start. You should use your thumbs to gently separate her labia to both sides to expose the vaginal opening of the woman. Use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, sometimes light and heavy, and sometimes the entire lips are attached. Remember not to blow air into a woman's vagina, it's not fun and can be an accident.
At this time, women's attention is all focused on the vaginal area, and the clitoris begins to swell and expose (some women's clitoris is very small and not easy to expose, so don't look for this kind of women), if you haven't kissed her clitoris , she just felt bloated, she shouldn't feel too much. At this time, you can stop for a while instead of kissing the vagina, but gently touch her clitoris with the tip of your wet tongue, and lift her feeling from the clitoris, the woman will scream a few times, and then you go back and kiss her The vaginal opening and labia of the girl, at this time, the girl's clitoris has just been stimulated, and she will be in a state of eagerness for you to kiss her clitoris again.
Remember, don't kiss her clitoris again at this point anyway, let the woman hang in that feeling, and the man should start licking up from the woman's perineum toward the clitoris, slow, tongue When you reach the vaginal opening, move left and right, and continue to lick the labia upward while pushing aside, and approach the clitoris a little bit.
At this time, women should be telling themselves, "I'm here, I'm about to kiss it, hurry up, hurry up and hold it", don't care how women call you or pull you, just don't kiss the clitoris, when you're almost there, gently use the tip of your tongue Yes, the lighter the better, just swipe and tap on her clitoris (the tongue should contain some saliva), and then lick the vaginal opening in the opposite direction according to the above-mentioned pro-method, which will make the woman die in a hurry. Hurry, naturally excited.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try to insert their tongues into the vagina of women and stir, as long as you can stir them.
Women are very fond of this trick, but men need to be careful with their tongues, it will hurt if they stretch too long. Men with thick tongues (like me, so pitiful) can only insert a short section, but they can roll their tongues and insert them. Although they are not inserted much, they can make women feel very bloated. Moreover, the feeling of the wide and thick tongue sweeping from the bottom to the top of the vaginal opening can not be felt by men with slender tongues. Men with slender tongues can use the tip of the tongue to lightly pick the middle seam of women's labia, which is also very comfortable. .
Now that you can concentrate on capturing the "pearl", move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. many men may think that just by licking the clitoris of a woman desperately with their tongue, they can make a woman orgasm, which is a bit wrong. A woman's clitoris is very sensitive, and if you lick it too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, which is boring.
There are a few things to pay attention to when kissing the clitoris. The tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and the tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 is now available). When kissing the clitoris, it must be light and use the tip of the tongue to lick it. .
To attack the clitoris, use the five-character formula of "point, pick, dial, press, and stir": point is to touch the top of a woman's clitoris with the tip of the tongue; pick is to move the tongue upward from under the clitoris; dial is to use the tongue to move left and right To move the woman's clitoris; to press is to press the woman's clitoris with your tongue from time to time, and it is enough to press down a little;
At this time, you have to master the female's reaction, because the female is very engaged and excited at this time, you can feel a little muscle under their clitoris and it seems to be throbbing, which is very good when you are holding a female's clitoris. obvious. Don't interrupt a woman's feelings casually, and move evenly, because your sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring women to orgasm.
When men have sex, they always want to be longer and ejaculate later, so that they can be more comfortable. Women at this time, like men, want this unusually comfortable feeling to last longer, so you must be considerate of women's feelings, unless the other party strongly asks you to "give" her, or kiss your tongue for too long When he was numb, he used a fast rhythm to make the other party reach a climax. There is a very useful technique. Don't learn the cunnilingus method of the male protagonist in adult films, and don't always kiss the clitoris of women according to the above method. These actions are similar. When you feel that you can give the other party an orgasm, you should Cover the clitoris of the woman with the whole lips, press the upper lip on the root of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and separate the labia of the girl from left to right with the lower lip, try to get as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hee hee), cover with your mouth A woman's clitoris (leave some room) to make a woman feel like her clitoris is floating in your mouth.
Attacking with five-character tactics, this is the most meaningful moment for men to cunnilingus for women, because you can control each other's excitement and orgasm through your lips and tongue, usually I lick the last round and let each other There was a sudden twitch, and when she was about to come, let it go gently, leave her clitoris, and yell at her in anger, or when she left, when she was about to scream, put it on immediately, she felt comfortable. Can't shout again. How proud you are when you see that you can control a woman's emotions! But don't play too much, it will make the opponent kick out of bed.
When licking with a woman's clitoris, you can lick her pubic hair with your hands while licking it, which is very comfortable; you can also use your fingers to gently tease her anus; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina to stir; you can also Reaching out with both hands to grab her breasts, these are all actions that can make women more comfortable. In the military, they are called "circling points to fight for help".
At this time, no matter what you ask a woman to ask, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, you stop these actions. She will definitely agree when she is in a hurry. Of course, it depends on whether your request is too much. I usually ask her to give me a "back door", but I never say yes; you can ask her to beg you to give her an orgasm, hee hee, look at her coquettishly begging you to hurry up, you'll feel like you So convincing.
Then you shake your head and lick your tongue quickly, and the women's thighs will get tighter and tighter (women, pay attention, if your boyfriend tells you that your neck hurts the next day, it's you who did it, hum), Then a strong jerking motion, and then the body relaxes.
If you have the heart, hold on to her clitoris and don't move, just hold and suck her clitoris, but don't make any movements with your tongue, and don't touch the clitoris, because at this time, the female's clitoris is very congested and swollen. When you orgasm is very sensitive, when you touch it, women will be "comfortable" and "painful". Unless you want to "fix" her severely, then you just keep licking it and watch her dodge and dodge happily for a while.
Female orgasms can last for a long time, from ten to dozens of seconds, and they will lie on the bed motionless or even twitch all over. Just do whatever you need to do at this time, such as wiping sweat and drinking water, because women at this time are already orgasm idiots, and there is no room for you to exist in their minds except for the feeling of extreme excitement. When you "walk" around and come back, she will just relax.
After a female cunnilingus orgasm, she is very eager to have an eggplant-like object inserted into her vagina instantly, so it doesn't need to be taught, right? To know that eggplant is unreliable these days, you have to rely on yourself. If you are "soft" because you are too focused on cunnilingus for the woman, you can ask the woman to fuck you for a while.
Not every girl is suitable for cunnilingus, because some girls may have a lot of secretions and a heavy body odor due to endocrine disorders. Even if they are cleaned, their genitals will still smell a lot, which is difficult. Let men accept it, and I will not be replaced by me? Intentionally, women with this characteristic should be more forgiving.
In addition, women should not cunnilingus a few days before their period, because women usually have more leucorrhea when they have their period. At this time, if a woman is cunnilingus, the vaginal water is mixed with leucorrhea, which is not very hygienic.
You can play some music when cunnilingus, kiss the woman according to the rhythm of the music, and suggest to her that the rhythm of cunnilingus for her comes from the music, let her feel your kiss while listening to the music, it will make her feel very romantic and comfortable of. Try some rhythmic music to see which one is more suitable for your kissing frequency. My personal recommendation is the guzheng "Pingsha Falling Wild Goose", the pipa "House of Flying Daggers", the guitar "California Hotel", and don't play "Erquan Yinyue", such desolate music will destroy any atmosphere.
Both men and women, cunnilingus needs to be practiced. once it is born, it is cooked twice and it is three times. All you need is your emotional investment. Don't think that cunnilingus will lose face. You should know that cunnilingus can also gain a great sense of conquest.
On the other hand, men need a sense of conquest, and women also need a sense of conquest, so that they can be more committed, active and cooperative to have sex with you. Aren't men's sense of conquest enough? Helping women cunnilingus can not only show men's demeanor, but also give girls a sense of satisfaction and conquest. Why not do it?
If you want to show more love to your girlfriend, give more respect and equality, and you can pass the chauvinism threshold, you can change your body position, which is called the "enhanced version" here. ". At the beginning, let the woman lie on the bed and perform cunnilingus according to the basic version. After the stimulation of various parts, the man lies on the bed, props up his head with a pillow, and lets the woman "ride" on your head (hee hee, This is really riding on the head of a man to make a fortune), the man faces up to cunnilingus for the woman, in this way, women can actively adjust the stimulated parts, men are more tired, and often have to raise their heads to kiss, The neck will be sore.
But this way of cunnilingus is definitely several times stronger for women's stimulation and satisfaction than lying in bed. Please think from the perspective of a woman, there is a man you love lying on your crotch. In a broad sense, it is a man who is riding on his crotch and cunnilingus for himself. How exciting, how satisfying, how satisfying A matter of conquest!
Men will feel the yin water of excited women running down your chin, and even the corners of your mouth all over your neck. In cunnilingus, you can try to gently rub the female with the tip of the nose or the beard, which will give you a different kind of stimulation.
2. Tips for satisfying sex
1. Exercise sex skills
Life is movement, and sex also needs exercise to get stronger. We will find that people with better physique have a longer time to have sex. And people with poor physique, the time to have sex is relatively short. Therefore, we must keep exercising and pay attention to nutritious diet. At the same time, do some muscle exercises, such as intermittently stopping the ejaculation while urinating, and then continuing to urinate for a count of 10. In addition, you can also forcefully contract the muscles of your penis to improve control while you are working at your desk or driving.
2. Do it if you want
Many people have sex a few times a week, a few times a month. However, this kind of regular sex undoubtedly pushed the wonderful feeling to a dead end. Perfect sex isn't sex for sex's sake, but we're all so immersed in it and enjoying the beauty of sex. So, when you want to, just do it. Don't force yourself if you don't want to. Sex can only be made more harmonious and perfect when you want to. You can add some "catalysts" to sex, such as the Durex M Huanjue Crescent Multi-Function Erotic Massager. Its soft silicone edge brings a unique massage experience, and with 7 major functions, it brings a richer shock experience.
3. Sex Dispersion
If you want to prolong sex, the key problem is to reduce the sensitivity of the glans. We all know that the glans penis is the first sexually sensitive area of men, and the final ejaculation occurs because the glans penis is strongly stimulated. If the sensitivity of the glans can be reduced, ejaculation will be delayed. When the sex is very engaged, the mind will focus on the glans. Men even have the sensation of their entire body entering a woman's body. At this time, if you can think about other things, you will temporarily relieve the urge to ejaculate.
4. Adjust the frequency of twitching
When men are having sex, they will obviously find that once they ejaculate, it is time for sex. Therefore, when there is a sense of urgency to ejaculate, the man can slow down the twitching speed, reduce the amplitude of the movement, or pause the twitching or pull out the penis, and then resume the twitching after the urgency subsides. Repeating this action can significantly prolong the time for sex.
5. Changeable posture
Sex positions are not uniform, you can change the sex positions from time to time, so that every sex becomes different and full of excitement. Although we can't master all sexual positions, remember that all positions are the same. So, adding different elements to each pose makes it a new pose. For example, missionaries, putting a pillow on their hips will make the pleasure more intense.
6. Appropriate changes in body position
Side lying, female top, and sitting can all prolong sexual intercourse. The reason is that the man uses less force and relaxes muscles, so that men can control their desire to ejaculate, thereby prolonging sexual intercourse. In addition, condoms can also prolong intercourse. Of course, we also need to pay attention to the fact that the female vaginal opening is facing down, and the love fluid is easy to flow out, which can easily lead to vaginal dryness. Therefore, remember to apply cherry fruit flavored human body lubricant, which can effectively relieve dryness.
7. Excited words with each other
Many men and women are silent during sex and like to feel each other silently. Sex, however, is not a silent process. And men don't like women who don't say a word in bed, so say something in bed, something to make yourself and the other party excited, but remember not to be swearing.
