Basic Information
Chinese name: foot fetish
Foreign name: fetish
Behavior Type: Hobby
Objects: feet or legs of the same or opposite sex
Related items: stockings, shoes, etc. and legs and feet
Briefly
Foot fetish is one type of fetish in the inversion of sex. Inversion is a "pattern of sexual behavior" that "requires unusual objects, rituals, or situations for complete sexual satisfaction". Some individuals with more severe inversions require 4 to 10 orgasmic releases per day. Although unusual, not all sexually inverted individuals desire Satan to change their sexual preferences. A fetish is a type of sexual inversion, in which a person has a sexual interest in "some inanimate object". Fetish people are often male, so female foot fetishes are rare. People with strong fetishes may steal or even violently obtain desired items.
Some foot fetishes will use others to trample themselves for pleasure, so some foot fetishes also take on the role of masochism. A masochist obtains sexual pleasure by being humiliated, subjected to pain (whipped, trampled, slapped, etc.). These humiliations or injuries are usually set within a certain range, and if these activities go beyond the limits, serious injury or even death can result. For example, there is a method of masochism called autosexual suffocation, which strangulates oneself to achieve the effect of suffocation, which leads to the death of many masochists in the United States.
Professor Wang from the School of History and Culture of Shandong University said that foot fetish, in a broad sense, refers to the special fascination of human beings with the feet of the opposite sex or the same sex, as well as shoes and socks, and specifically refers to men's fascination with women's feet.
reason
Many people are trying to explain the reason for foot fetish. There are also many people who are trying foot fetish, but so far there is no unified answer. Physiologically, neuroscientists believe that in the sensory areas of the cerebral cortex, neurons responsible for reproduction are located close to those in the feet, which may lead to a subconscious connection between the feet and reproductive organs. Human animal olfactory instinct is also considered to be the cause of foot fetish. Some experts believe that women's feet emit odor, which stimulates the sexual desire of the opposite sex, thus forming foot fetish.
Some researchers believe that foot fetish may be caused by inborn brain damage, like epilepsy. Psychology also has its own views on foot fetish. At the same time, some people believe that the influence of the environment and sexual experience are closely related to the formation of foot fetish. When adolescents experience the first sexual excitement, if they encounter female feet at this time, they may associate it with sexual excitement and like it. Use this as a form of sexual stimulation in the future. From a different academic analysis, the reason for foot fetish is indeed a question that is worth studying for many people. The thirst for love may also be the cause of foot fetishes, see foot fetish and love below.
relationship with love
Objectively speaking, normally developed feet, especially female feet, are beautiful in themselves. The reason why people without foot fetish tend to think it is dirty and ugly is mainly because they cannot tolerate the special smell of feet (foot odor). For foot fetishes, Not only has the smell of the feet been accepted, but it has been psychologically elevated as an invisible tool of sexual stimulation.
The reason why there is such a difference, and how is the foot fetish complex formed? Some people think that when a person is in love with the woman in his heart and it is difficult to obtain, the image score of the envied object will continue to rise to near perfection, resulting in The feeling of kneeling, at this time, the position of the foot in its sexual psychology quickly rises to the first place, and a foot fetish complex is formed (foot fetish is actually a kind of masochistic complex). Two branches, one part is more fond of women's feet in the wrapping of shoes and socks, and the other part tends to women's shoes and socks (especially stockings)...
Whether foot fetish is good or bad depends on its degree. If you only like the feet of your beloved woman and love her more because of their beautiful feet, and use feet as an important way of sexual stimulation and arousal in sexual intercourse, it will not affect normal sexual life, of course. It is normal and the best; if you only look at the feet and not the people, you like the feet as long as they are beautiful, or the whole mentality is completely devoted to foot fetishes, and you long to become a "foot slave" for women to play with, then it is abnormal or abnormal. . Some foot fetishes prefer women's shoes and socks. If they only like their beloved women to wear a certain style of shoes and socks, that's fine, but if their mind is all about shoes and socks, it's not good. When they want to buy or When obtaining the desire to wear shoes and socks worn by women through various means, we must restrain this desire and truly pursue women.
There are many foot fetishes who long to be trampled on by others to make themselves feel pain and get pleasure, which is exactly the same as the masochistic psychology in sexual abuse. Ellis and Freud believed that this mentality was driven by a thirst for love, and the masochist believed that they were beaten because the abuser loved them and cared about them. A study found that many children who were abused by their mothers would not leave their mothers when they grew up, and would always try their best to show her love for her. If these mothers died, many of these children would be mentally The problem arises because they regard the mother's beating as an expression of love, which coincides with the traditional Chinese concept of "the beater loves" and "filial sons come out of the stick". (Sadomasochism Subculture, 1998) Many experts believe that masochists tend to have a greater need for love than normal people.
Horney believes that because abused sufferers have a dual fear of "their own weakness" and "their own lack of importance", they therefore hope to be inflicted with pain and torture, on the one hand, to make themselves feel noticed by others, and on the other hand. Pain and torture can be used to ease your fears. The results of the experiment also showed that masochists were "sometimes more anxious about being unloved than being killed or castrated," and they were willing to submit in order to be loved by others. The battered is so afraid of cold sensations that there is a biological perception that they are willing to be beaten in order to warm the skin and thus feel warm. ("Sadism Subculture", 1998) In addition to the thirst for love, the abused person also has the need to be noticed by others. He hopes to get rid of loneliness and gain relationships, because in the process of being abused, the abuser must exist. ("Sadism Subculture", 1998) A few years ago, there was a news story about a strong and slightly mentally handicapped man who willingly donated his money to maintain friendship with several delinquent teenagers. Allowing him to beat himself, he was beaten to death a few months later.
From this heinous news can be seen that the battered people have a great desire for relationships. If the battered person's fears (of his own weakness, his own lack of importance, his own interpersonal relationships) become overwhelming, he will go to the extreme of "giving up on himself", characterized by "completely giving up his personality and merging with others". Oneness", a feeling of "I am nothing". Take the female writer Marcus as an example, she asked her boyfriend to act only on his own will, and treated her as a subordinate without free will, which she thought was the safest, which is Because of this, she feels that she is not alone, and that she can use her boyfriend to determine that her existence has value. ("Sadistic Subculture", 1998)
discuss disputes
Foot fetish is still not accepted by others in today's society. Most foot fetishes are labeled as "sick" and "weird", so that they are ashamed to tell others, US presidential adviser Dick Morris said. Foot fetish tendencies have been a source of laughter in the media is a good example of this. In addition, people often like to kiss the face and small feet of the newborn baby, which can also be said to be a foot fetish behavior to a certain extent, but I believe no one will look at him with strange eyes, because the baby's feet It is recognized as very cute. The second reason modern people do not accept foot fetish is that they do not understand why some foot fetishes yearn to be trampled on.
They think that being trampled on the body, especially the face, is absolutely painful, humiliating, and that people who take pleasure in it are definitely the ones with problems. Part of the answer to this phenomenon can be found in the article "Relationship with Love". It should also be noted that foot fetishes never aim at pain and humiliation. They do not violate the "pleasure principle", which is the human instinct to seek pleasure and avoid pain. , they just use being trampled on by others as a means to achieve the purpose of pleasure. A physiological view holds that pain stimulates the brain to produce some kind of anesthetic, which produces the endorphin pleasure.
Some people think that there is no right or wrong in the act of foot fetish, and everyone has the right to choose the object of their love. However, if foot fetishism makes some foot fetishes steal, rob other people's shoes and socks in order to satisfy their desires, or even stomp on each other's feet because they cannot succeed, causing the other party to be hurt, this kind of foot fetish behavior is unacceptable. As long as the foot fetishist does not cause harm or psychological distress to others, the behavior is acceptable.
foot fetish culture
Foot fetish is a subculture. Mr. Feng Jicai once wrote "Three Inch Golden Lotus", which analyzed the phenomenon of foot fetish in ancient (modern) China with a delicate storyline. "Foot fetish culture", as an alternative sexual culture, is widely spread in many countries such as Europe and the United States, and has a long history in my country, which was widely prevalent as early as the Song Dynasty in China. It was an alternative sexual culture of the feudal aristocracy at that time. (There is no textual research on whether it is popular among the people, and I dare not comment.) Those feudal aristocrats and their playful sons used women's shoes as drinking utensils to appreciate, taste and play with women. "Three-inch golden lotus" is fashionable.
Even today, there is a huge foot fetish group in our country. Therefore, "foot fetish culture", as an alternative sexual culture, not only has a long history, a broad basin, and a large group, but also has become an important part of sexual culture. . The formation of this kind of foot fetish culture has many factors such as history, society, living environment, physiology and psychology, but the main difference in sexual pursuit is due to the difference in the experience of each person in the stage of sexual maturity. If someone simply regards it as "sexual perversion", then he is a misinterpretation of "foot fetish culture", and if "foot fetishes" describe normal sexual behavior as low-level and indecent hooliganism, then there must be people Said he was mentally ill.
Sexual Alternative
Foot fetishes are more common in men. This kind of foot fetish patient is only interested in one or more female feet, and only when she sees or touches the female feet can she have a sexual impulse, so as to touch, suck or bite, and even masturbate in the face of her feet to achieve sex climax. On the contrary, they reject normal sexual behavior, or even have no sexual response at all, are not interested in the sexual object's genitals, even think it is unclean, have no sexual impulses, can't even get an erection, and can't have normal sexual intercourse. Although the phenomenon of foot fetish and foot fetish has similarities, there are fundamental differences.
Whether it is a sexual perversion, the key is to see whether a normal sexual life can be carried out, that is to say, the key is to see whether there is a perversion of the sexual object and sexual purpose. The sexual object and purpose of foot fetish are perverse, always pointing to the feet of the opposite sex, so as to achieve sexual satisfaction. This is the same as sexual impulses and sexual intercourse triggered by other erogenous parts of the opposite sex, and it is also a way of sex, not a sexual perversion. In the sexual mode of couples, there is a trigger point for each other's habitual sexual impulses formed for some reason, which is a "burning point" of the sexual flame.
The sexual process of couples is rarely stimulated directly by the other's genitals, but is often stimulated by some kind of signal. This is because human sexual response is a conditioned reflex activity formed on the basis of unconditioned reflex. The so-called conditioned reflex means that the response is not caused by a direct stimulus, but by a certain signal stimulus. For example, saliva secretion after eating food is an unconditioned reflex, while seeing the color and shape of food or smelling the smell of food triggers a saliva secretion response, which is a conditioned reflex. Similarly, human sexual response is also a conditioned reflex, which is a sexual response triggered by a stimulus with a sexual signal meaning. This sexual signal varies from person to person. The appearance, posture, body odor of the opposite sex, a certain part of the body, and even clothing and fantasies about the opposite sex may become sexual signals.
Cause of formation
I think there are several reasons why the foot fetish of modern people is hidden. First, under the influence of the "Heavenly Foot Movement" in the early years of the Republic of China, the confusion between foot binding and foot fetish made the normal foot fetish psychology be associated with morbid foot binding behavior, and the foot fetish group was misinterpreted as a perverted group; For decades, Chinese culture has been imprisoned. Love is still a petty bourgeois sentiment, and you are ashamed to meet people when you pull hands, not to mention you have to pull her feet; It is difficult for Yaxing to persuade him to do some shameful behaviors, such as social news that is often seen in the corner of the media, a certain gentleman stealing women's shoes and socks for masturbation and so on. Men will steal women's shoes and socks. It's really unfair! Just imagine that foot fetishes do this, the air of the earth will definitely be turbid, and environmental protection is a big problem.
