Basic Information
Chinese name: about gun
Ways: Internet chat software, meeting and other ways
Definition: non-male and female friends having sex
extended relationship
A buddy relationship can be a friend, a first love, an ex-lover, an ex-spouse, or a stranger.
There is a possibility of further development of the relationship between lovers and spouses.
Gunners are also seen among explorers. For example, in a research base stationed in Antarctica, because researchers must leave their hometowns and isolate themselves from the world, they may find a colleague in the base as a long-term sexual partner to solve their physiological needs, and end this fog when they leave the base. love.
background
The final "final question" of the "Sexual Civilization and Sexual Health of College Students" course of Sichuan Normal University - how college students view "sexual sex" has caused heated discussions on the Internet.
source
The final exam question of the course "Sexual Civilization and Sexual Health of College Students" of Sichuan Normal University is "Shenzhen Exam Questions". In this regard, the teacher who created the question clarified to the reporter that the netizen who broke the news misinterpreted the title, and the original intention was "how college students view dating", aiming to guide college students to reflect on the behavior from the perspectives of sexual morality and sexual civilization. Sichuan Normal University's "Sexual Civilization and Sexual Health of College Students" is a high-quality course in Sichuan Province and is widely welcomed by students at Sichuan Normal University.
View
Huashang Daily published Ran Yu's view
In our cultural tradition, sexual culture is repressed as a whole, and over time, a certain kind of discourse inertia of “unspoken” or “unspoken” has emerged. When this tendency is implemented in sex education, it is reflected in an extremely fragile moral sensitivity and a conservative and almost backward value indoctrination. In this regard, controversial topics such as "dating a gun" seem to be isolated from the classroom. ? But the embarrassing reality is that, on the one hand, it is the sexual enlightenment of pretending to be cute, and on the other hand, it is the sexual practice of hurricane and rush. The encounter between the two is destined to only hurt more ignorant and fearless people. many times, the "taboo" itself is a charm, and the ambiguous and mysterious air makes too many people have the urge to try. "Controversial topics" are talked about more, but it actually means a process of desensitization and disenchantment. When the nature, form, process, and consequences of "chasing a gun" are known to more people, the attraction may fade.
The Beijing Times published Liu Zhiquan's view that children under control often do not grow up. "Pipe" is like "blocking", but blocking is not as good as sparse. "Pipeline" cannot cure the "flood" of personality. The times have developed so much, how many college students do not know the word "appointment" and the potential harm of "appointment"? Therefore, netizens and parents are really overthinking. Since we don't live in a vacuum, it's better to let young people face up to the status quo instead of stealing the bell. Like this school, for hot topics in society, students can answer and debate through exams, which can generate antibodies and better protect themselves.
Xiao Jiang thinks about whether you talk or not, the "cannons" are all there. Some people think that "out of sight is clear", but they are unwilling to face reality. It has to be said that under the background that married adultery is not a crime and unmarried sex is not illegal, there is no "strict prohibition" sexual restraint on the legal level. Under the clamor of bizarre freedom and openness, the morality and self-discipline of both sexes are also challenged. At this time, if "people of insight" don't even dare to talk about "shooting", "one-night stand", etc., it is not "love" for society and youth, but hypocritical pretending to be arrogant and obscenity. College students are adults, they must know how to be responsible for themselves and others, and understand that there are rippling harms in "dating a gun". The topic of "Dating a Cannonball" has attracted heated discussions, which disproves the scarcity of confrontation and deliberation.
