Basic Information
Chinese name: sex toys
Foreign name: SexAid
Category: Sex Products
Introduction
Sex toys are literally easy to understand, tools that add fun. People are used to labeling "sex toys" and looking at it differently. In European and American countries, people call sex toys Sextoys, which means "sex toys". It can be roughly divided into erotic gifts, condoms, lubricants, sex products and erotic underwear. It has improved effects on women who suffer from frigidity, men with dysfunction, or middle-aged couples who have difficulty having sex. It is a toy next to the pillow of young couples.
Therefore, modern people should no longer look at sex toys from a colored perspective, but should look at such products from the perspective of love and fun. Not only can DIY not ask for help, but also will not influence or force others to act. From another point of view, lasting love is absolutely indispensable for the management of sexual relations, and actively injecting interest into married life can make love fresher and more lasting. In developing countries, even in areas where traditional concepts are still strong, people's understanding of sex toys is gradually changing. The reason why the sex toys are crowned with the word "interest" is to increase the changes in the boudoir and inject new stimuli in hopes of reaching a climax.
Classification
Enhanced sexual stimuli such as glans coronal sulcus ring (elastic ring with protruding stimuli, fixed in the coronal sulcus under the glans), penis coat (silicon is mostly used as material, which can 'enlarge and lengthen' the penis, with more protruding stimuli ), condoms with raised irritants, etc. Their role is to increase, strengthen the stimulation of the vagina, thereby making it easier for women to achieve orgasm.
Sex toys such as lubricants are suitable for women with insufficient sexual arousal or postmenopausal women. It lubricates the vagina and reduces discomfort and even pain during intercourse. It is also suitable for women who are inexperienced and who are too nervous to be fully sexually excited. It allows women to easily get used to and adapt to the penetration of the penis. many lubricants also add ingredients that stimulate women, becoming a special product that is biased towards sex. Masturbation sex toys are available for men and women, and they are good substitutes for men and women who lack sexual partners.
We have already said that sexual impulse is a kind of energy, it is better to let it have a suitable release way than to suppress it painfully, so this kind of sex toys (sex products) really help the use of couples who are separated from each other, it is worth noting Yes, nowadays women's products are mainly sold to men. Sexy lingerie Sexy lingerie belongs to sex toys (translated in English as sexy lingerie), which is a product that combines visual stimulation with sex, and is a product that meets spiritual needs after the improvement of human material life.
The more accurate name of domestic sexy underwear should be sexy clothing, which is a product between underwear and clothing. Like many sex toys, erotic underwear is already a very common product in Europe and the United States, but it has only been gradually accepted by the public in the past two years. It is foreseeable that with the improvement of domestic material life, sexy underwear will gradually move towards the homes of ordinary people. Erotic underwear is a derivative of underwear, which is different from conventional underwear. Its focus tends to be "sexy", forming visual stimulation, so as to achieve physiological stimulation of various senses. Other sex toys such as sex toys that increase sexual interest, sex products, some special sex toys, such as sadomasochistic sm products, sexy underwear, etc.
suitable for the crowd
Many people have accepted sex toys, but whether they can make them really work and improve the quality of husband and wife life depends on whether they have an understanding of sex toys and how to use them. According to the needs of different people, the types of sex toys used are also different. Who are the sex toys suitable for?
1. Men with short intercourse time Men with short intercourse time may achieve sexual satisfaction, but the other woman has not entered the orgasm stage. At this time, it can be used with sex toys. Of course, the purpose of using sex toys is not simply to let one party reach a climax, but should be satisfied by both parties. Therefore, during intercourse, you can use sex toys to stimulate each other's sensitive parts, bring more pleasure to women, and try to make the two orgasms synchronized.
2. Frigid women's sex toys have a certain healing effect on frigid people. Because frigidity is mainly psychological, lack of sexual desire. The use of sex toys can effectively stimulate sexual desire. Sex toys first produce visual stimulation from the senses. In the process of use, women can experience the pleasure that could not be brought by sexual life, which can effectively improve sexual desire and relieve sexual frigidity. And it can be used with external use products such as human lubricant and massage oil, and the effect will be better.
3. People who need contraception, whether they are young men and women, couples, or elderly couples, condoms have a big role, which can not only ensure the safety of sexual life, but also can effectively prevent pregnancy.
4. Single friends As a single man or woman, it is difficult to release the lust in your heart without a sexual partner. And an inflatable doll or artificial phallus can effectively help single men and women release their erotic desires. Sex toys are not a spiritual sustenance, but can actually bring you into a paradise of pleasure. There are many agency websites for sex toys on the Internet. If there is a demand, why not try it.
Precautions
Material consumers should not blindly seek stimulation and ignore the importance of material when purchasing sex products. Otherwise, if it breaks, gets stuck, or falls into the vagina, it will really be a loss for the wife Soldier. For example, a penis collar with feathers or beads is prone to fall off the feathers or beads in the vagina when the penis is pumped; and the penis uses the collar for too long, which can also lead to cell necrosis and other phenomena. . In addition, massage sticks or condoms (especially protruding ones) with poor materials are also prone to breakage or fall off. Therefore, when purchasing, you must consider various aspects, so as not to be self-defeating and "sweep". Attention should be paid to cleanliness and hygiene Since most sex products will come into direct contact with sexual organs, extra care needs to be taken in terms of cleanliness and hygiene in the rules for use of sex toys. If it is not a sex product that is used and thrown away, it should be cleaned after each use; and a dildo used for masturbation is also best used with a condom. In addition, the inflatable dolls that are favored by many people should not be shared by many people because of their high price, because in case of bacteria on the upper body, causing more serious sexually transmitted diseases, it is really worth the loss! So the rules for the use of sex toys are for everyone An issue that should be taken seriously.
safety principles
1. Safety and hygiene are the first things to ensure the quality and specifications of sex toys. Select couples products that have passed the inspection. This is a necessary condition for preventing damage. At present, the quality of products in my country's sex toys market is not guaranteed. Pay special attention to product quality when purchasing. . In addition, sex toys can be used repeatedly. After sex, you should pay attention to cleaning and disinfection for later use to prevent infection caused by uncleanness. If you prefer to use sex condoms, then you must first consider whether each other is allergic to the substances on the condom; then consider whether the condom is suitable for you, and whether it will break during sex. Double layer; if you use the double slip series, it is recommended to use a shock ring to prevent the sleeve from falling off.
2. Emotional communication can not be less Sex toys can only be used as an auxiliary means, and cannot replace the emotional communication between the two parties, nor can you use sex drugs for a long time, let alone use sex toys as a necessary means to improve your sexual life. You must know that sex life without emotional basis not only cannot improve sexual quality, but also leads to the reduction, weakening or even separation of emotional communication between the two parties, causing the other party's disgust or disgust, and making sexual disharmony or sexual dysfunction worse.
3. only if you are willing to be available. Whether to use couples products, what kind of sex toys to use, when to use them, and the frequency of use, etc., all need to be negotiated by both parties. If both parties agree to use adult products, but the other party feels uncomfortable during use, they should stop using it to avoid harm to the lover's body.
More than one-quarter (27%) of those who use proportional sex own a vibrator or massager, and more than one-third of those in the 25-34 and 45+ age groups. Icelanders had the highest use of vibrators (53%), followed by Norwegians (50%) and Britons (49%). Worldwide, the most commonly used sex enhancements are pornographic videos (35%), sex condoms (27%) and lubricants (22%). Nearly half (49%) of 35-44 year olds have watched pornographic videos to spice up their sex life, while 40% of 21-24 year olds have 32% of people in the 25-34 age group have had this experience. For women, vibrators are more likely (20%) than men (14%), and more men tend to use a product that prolongs their sex life.
How to use 1. Do not throw the unpacked carton anywhere, keep it well, because it will be used if you want to send it back to the original factory to repair the damaged parts in the future; 2. Remove the plastic paper from the packaging and check if there is any damage during the handling process. No damage; 3. take the appliance to the bathroom and degrease the surface. There will be oil on the surface of many simulation appliances, so they should be cleaned once a week to remove oil; 4. It is also an essential procedure to use ordinary baby powder puffs, the purpose is to remove oil while removing oil. And take away the dirt on the surface of the appliance. After that, it should be rinsed again, and the powder and dirt on the appliance should be wiped off with a wet towel, and then it should be kept dry and clean; 5. During use, it is best to wear a condom and apply an appropriate amount of lubricant. 6. After use, it should be cleaned in time to avoid the breeding of bacteria.
development path
Although many rulers in ancient China practiced sexual confinement and sexual isolation to the people, it should not be considered that ancient Chinese society was very closed and conservative on sexual issues. It's the way men drag their braids and women wrap their feet. In fact, during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period in China, people did not regard sex boudoir affairs as private, and they could talk about it openly, even when discussing national affairs in the court. In the Han Dynasty, sex was regarded as a private matter of men and women, and was not discussed publicly, but it was not regarded as a scandal. In the Tang Dynasty, sexual customs were more open.
It was only after the Song Dynasty became popular that Chinese society implemented its eight hundred years of sexual imprisonment and sexual isolation, but it was also forbidden to go up. Summarizing the history of China, the Chinese have been deeply influenced by Confucianism, Buddhism, and Taoism: Confucianism regards sex as one of the natural nature and needs of human beings; Buddhists believe that most of the gods and Buddhas are male and female, both male and female. Taoism goes a step further and regards intercourse between men and women as the way to harvest yin and replenish yang and achieve immortality. Some ancient Chinese sex books handed down to modern times had very advanced content at that time. It should be said that the ancient Chinese sexual culture has the characteristics of multi-level and multi-faceted. It is very rich and complex, but it develops with twists and turns. Sex cannot be forcibly suppressed. If the demand for nature is suppressed, the result can only be counterproductive, and it may be a morbid strengthening.
Ancient Greece
The first written records of dildos date from ancient Greek times, when merchants there were already selling items known as "Olisbos". Stones, leathers, and woods, there are documents that lead us to believe that the buyers of "Olisbos" were mainly single women, but the conclusion to this question is not unexpected, and this view remains to this day. For widespread acceptance (dildos are a sexual tool for single women). But now we also know that dildos are widely loved by both men and women.
Diletto: The Dildo Song
Next let's go to Renaissance Italy, where "Olisbos" becomes "Diletto" for satisfied Italians. Although only because olean oil, which acts as a lubricant, is abundant. Diletto is not as comfortable to use as modern dildos. Today's thriving adult product industry proves that artificial phalluses are still deeply rooted in people's hearts and continue to develop and grow.
victorian era
In the mid-nineteenth century, the world's first rubber phallus was introduced. Today's rubber dicks are more comfortable and addicting than any artificial dick ever known. The first use of oscillators was also in the Victorian era, when oscillators were prescribed by doctors to treat so-called "hysteria," a term derived from the Greek hystera. There was a misconception at the time that the "womb" was the source of insanity and agitation. At that time, women were considered not to have sex, and the use of vibrators for sexual pleasure would be considered shameful. However, oscillators are increasingly being sold in the market due to their mass acceptance for their massage function. The first half of the twentieth century saw a sharp decline in the number of advertisements for such products as oscillators began to appear in early pornographic films, and in the 1940s oscillators became increasingly notorious.
effect
A famous American sex magazine found in a survey that a considerable number of couples initially use these appliances because they do not understand how to use them and the effects of use, which not only wastes their passion, but also sometimes causes physical harm and affects sex. pleasure. Sex toys can be summed up in two categories: one is the "actual combat" category. Fast-acting necessities, including massage sticks, external massagers, male masturbators, semen locks, sheep eye circles, lubricating oil, functional condoms, vaginal gels... They are "combat-level" sex condiments. These items can directly increase the fun, which may have become a necessity for some people who desperately need to "wake up the sex spirit". Another category is the visual school. Suitable for "heavy tastes", S (Sadism sexual abuse), M (Masochism abused), SM products, as the name suggests, are props used in sexual abuse situations. Such props include leather underwear, imitation leather whips, handcuffs, low-temperature candles, nipple buckles, etc., which belong to the visual SM props with realistic appearance but weak power.
There are three main functions of sex toys
1. Treatment to improve sexual function;
2. Increase the interest in sex life;
3. Meet the sexual needs in special circumstances.
In reproductive science, those who are afraid of sexually transmitted diseases, those who are unconditionally married, those who go out for a long time or live alone, those who have strong sexual desires, when the sex life of husband and wife is not satisfactory, male impotence, female sexual frigidity, one of the husband and wife is sick or disabled and unable to Those who have sex can use sexual tools to stimulate orgasm and obtain sexual satisfaction. "The function of sexual equipment should be correctly evaluated. Correct use of it can achieve the effect of masturbation and self-medication." When people cannot complete sexual intercourse normally due to psychological and physiological problems, they should not avoid it with a negative and inaction attitude This need, but should be done with the help of body parts other than the genitals, drugs or sexual utensils, etc. to complete sexual activities. Many people buy sex toys because they want to try new tricks, to explore their own and their partner's sexual potential in alternative sexual pleasures, mostly unrelated to disease, "Everyone has a sexual hobby that gets a special form of stimulation, which is related to The disease has nothing to do. As for whether it hurts the body or not, as long as it is not abused, it is okay to occasionally stimulate it.
benefit
The pace of life in modern society is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of work and life is increasing. Married life has become a dispensable thing, and the relationship between husband and wife is gradually fading. The emergence of adult products can change this situation very well. In fact, there are many types of adult products, such as men's equipment, women's equipment and other masturbation products are one of them, there are others such as sexy underwear, game clothes, flirting products, sexy jumping eggs and condoms and so on. Erotic lingerie On boring nights, when he has no interest, you can play various roles: gentle nurse, wild pirate, cute cook... There is always one that makes him interested. Or flirting with vibrating eggs, vibrating eggs are very good sex foreplay equipment, and it is also a fun companion for female friends to use alone. It can stimulate the sensitive clitoris of women very well, and you can also adjust the frequency and intensity of stimulation to your liking through frequency modulation, so that you can quickly reach a state of numbness and speed up the arrival of orgasm. Some women can easily induce orgasm with oscillator stimulation. One woman who underwent PC myovaginal EMG monitoring for masturbation using her own sexual apparatus recorded more than 70 separate peaks, also known as clitoral orgasms, over the entire 1 hour period. At the same time, if the husband and wife communicate and use it together, it can also play a role in flirting, adding a lot of fun!
harm
A direct consequence of using masturbation or other sex products too frequently is that the body's sensitivity to "sexual arousal" decreases, and sexual arousal becomes more and more difficult. This is because sex toys often use equipment to physically stimulate specific parts of the human body directly, in order to pursue a one-step, extreme, exaggerated strong pleasure, and this "one-shot" pleasure really makes people feel at the beginning. It produces great satisfaction, but the "starting point" of sexual stimulation is rapidly raised, and later "slow" and "gentle" stimulation from the sexual partner's slight caress may be like tickling, and there is no feeling. In the eyes of male doctors, the frequent use of sex toys has never been advocated. once you realize that such products have seriously interfered with normal sexual life, it is best to stop using them immediately. Try to distract yourself from work or other recreational activities, and try to refrain from contacting the products you originally depended on. If it is really difficult to overcome by yourself, you should seek help from a specialist to provide behavioral therapy solutions.
Four Huadans
Electric shock egg: The simplest electric principle, making a small spherical object vibrate, if it only vibrates in the air, it may not have any entertainment effect, and you can still manipulate it.
Electric sex device: It looks no different from the real sex device, but it is more beautiful and more functional. Due to the material, it will also have various colors and sizes, you can buy and use it according to your actual situation.
Delay ring: Give women multiple cares and give men longer time to have fun. On the thumb-shaped comforter, plus erect soft spines, make women more happy.
Flirting set: Including thickened sets and crystal sets with different functional designs, massage sticks, double shock eggs and delay rings, together with a bottle of advanced human body lubricant.
