Basic Information
Chinese name: Enlightenment of sexual awareness
Foreign name: Coitus interruptus
Features: controlled by hormones
Impact: Emotional/Physical or Spiritual
Explanation: refers to the neural reflexes that can trigger sexual desire and arousal in response to related objects
The rejection stage
The sexual conflict period lasts for about a year. At the beginning of puberty, there is a short period of time when teenagers always want to stay far away from the opposite sex, especially in girls. this is mainly related to physiological factors. Due to the emergence of secondary sexual characteristics, young people feel at a loss and shy about the drastic changes that have taken place in themselves, and instinctively alienate from the opposite sex, and some people even resent the opposite sex.
The second stage of admiration
In the middle stage of puberty, young men and women often resonate spiritually, admire, love and yearn for some people in the surrounding environment who are particularly outstanding in sports, literature and art, knowledge and appearance (mostly elders of the same or opposite sex). In addition, and try to imitate the words and actions of these elders, and even become fascinated.
The third stage of love
As they grow older, when they reach the later stages of puberty, as their sexual development matures, young people often become interested in the opposite sex of their own age, and hope to have the opportunity to contact the opposite sex, or find ways to meet in various venues. Attract the attention of the opposite sex. However, because teenagers are emotionally unstable and have strong self-awareness, they are prone to conflict during the process of contact, often quarreling or even breaking up over trivial matters, so the objects of communication often change.
The four stages of love
After adolescence, adulthood follows.
Young people focus their friendship on a person of the opposite sex that they love. They are often together with each other, and they are in love with each other. They help each other in work and study, take care of each other in life, look forward to a happy life after marriage, and start preparing for the organization of future families. . At this time, young people pay less attention to their surroundings. Young women are often full of romantic fantasies, yearning to be loved, and tend to be sentimental, while young men have a strong desire to love others, so as to be satisfied with their sense of independence, and their mood is often more excited.
Tips: In the stage of sexual enlightenment, you should pay attention to sex education for children, such as using condoms for safe sex, so as not to cause physical and mental harm to children.