Basic Information
Chinese name: First Night
Characters: men and women
Attribute: reproductive noun
Suitable crowd: adults
Precautions
The first and first few sex lives of the newlyweds, of course, are very satisfying. But there are also people who are not very satisfied, because the newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge, and the two sides are just in contact, so they are easily nervous, shy and fearful, and it is normal for them to have a bad sex life. However, it is better to have a good wedding night. Specifically, pay attention to the following points:
1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene
Both you and your husband should wash your genitals with warm water and mild soap on your wedding night. The newlyweds are busy and tired due to purchasing items for marriage and entertaining relatives and friends. The men's smegma and the women's vaginal secretions increase. If they are not cleaned, it is very unsanitary and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.
2. take contraceptive measures
If both men and women do not want to have children immediately, and do not take contraceptives, both husband and wife have concerns, and the woman is more afraid of pregnancy, so her thoughts cannot be highly concentrated, and sexual life will be affected. If the woman takes contraceptives in time, or the man wears a condom, it is convenient for both parties, and her energy is concentrated, and her sexual life will achieve satisfactory results.
3. Cooperate closely and be considerate to each other
At the beginning of sex life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman is more obvious, the psychological state is more complicated, and the spirit is a little nervous. You have to ask your husband to move gently, and if it fails, you can try several times. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, relax her mind actively, arouse sexual excitement quickly, have more vaginal secretions, and have a good lubricating effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse, as well as the pain caused by the hymen being scratched.
4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen
After the hymen is ruptured, there is some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. It should be wiped with sterile gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have sexual intercourse every 2-3 days to prevent the wound from becoming inflamed. If the hymen ruptures and bleeds a lot and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.
5. Correct treatment of premature ejaculation
In the first sexual intercourse, the man may fail to have sexual intercourse due to premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.
Ancient first night
In modern society, "virgins" are regarded as bigger than the sky and bigger than the earth, but what about ancient times? In ancient times, the first night of women had to be done by other people or even "gods"... This is still the case in ancient times, why should modern people be more serious?
The first kind of dedication "Taurus"
Ancient Egypt had the wind of worshiping "Taurus". The so-called "Taurus" is a black bull with special markings on its body. It is said that this is the incarnation of Osiris, the god of reproduction. If there is a "Golden Bull" born, the priests will carefully raise it, and after four months, send it to the "Golden Bull Temple". Within 40 days after the "Taurus" first arrived at the temple, men were not allowed to go, only women were allowed to worship naked in the temple, and the girls offered their lower bodies to the "Taurus" one after another. This is their religious responsibility.
The second method of consecrating the power of the first night to the gods is by monks, priests, because they are the representatives of the gods.
The ancient Indian kings were not allowed to have contact with the new queen for three days after they were newly married, and for these three days they were handed over to the highest monk and the queen to sleep together. The king is still like this, what can the people do?
The third type is that the chiefs, landlords, and monarchs exercise the power of the first night
In the indigenous peoples of Bengal, India, virgins are not allowed to marry unless they have served a chief priest who is also a priest. New Zealand, Nicaragua, South America, Brazil and other places have this custom. Augustus the great of Ancient Rome had asserted this right over the wives and daughters of his subjects. The custom of Bretagne, France is: the first night is dedicated to Christ, the second night is dedicated to the Virgin, the third night is dedicated to the landlord, and the fourth night is dedicated to the bridegroom. In Guineva, which was once Portugal, there was a tribe whose chiefs not only enjoyed the right to the first night, but also required considerable gifts.
The fourth is the exercise of the right of the first night by the people, servants and strangers
Among some natives in the Philippines, there are special officials dedicated to this matter.
The fifth is even more strange. Isn't this disrespectful to God?
In the book "Black Sexuality", there is such a story: African tribes living near the equator have a custom of publicly auctioning the rights of teenage girls. When their teenage girls reach maturity, their virginity is sold to anyone who wants them. On that day, the girl was covered in clothes and was lifted up to travel around the tribe, and then she knelt under the umbrella in the square of the tribe. The onlookers could spend the night with the girl at an appropriate price.
