Basic Information
Chinese name: Cohabitation
Aliases: Masturbation
English name: masturbation
Clinic: Urology, Andrology
1. The causes of masturbation
Men and women of all ages can masturbate for different reasons. Most of the masturbation behaviors in childhood are due to the occasional play with the genitals unconsciously, or because of the stimulation of the genitals and the stimulation of rubbing the genitals when wearing tight pants and riding activities, generally there is no orgasm. Both men and women, after puberty, due to the physiological changes in the body, and the resulting sexual impulse and sexual desire, they are full of longing, curiosity and fantasy about sex. Normal sexual desire is the basic requirement for human maturation and reproduction, and it is a normal physiological phenomenon. However, it generally takes several years or more to wait from sexual maturity to being able to legally vent sexual energy and meet sexual requirements (registering marriage), and sexual needs are often the highest during this time, and always look for opportunities to vent their full sexual desire. Both men and women may inadvertently stimulate the genitals and achieve orgasm occasionally, so that they can get out of hand and develop the habit of masturbation. There are also others who learn to masturbate under the guidance or assistance of others, and get out of hand.
2. The performance of masturbation
Masturbation behavior mainly focuses on the direct or indirect stimulation of sexual organs in various ways, and finally the process of reaching orgasm (ejaculation), mainly including masturbation (masturbation) directly operated by hands, or the use of instruments to help "sex". Whether male or female, the way of masturbation is to achieve orgasm and sexual satisfaction through the direct stimulation of the reproductive organs.
Men's masturbation behaviors are often relatively simple, and almost all revolve around the penis. For example, some people rely on two thighs to clamp, press, and rub the penis to complete masturbation; some people rely on the friction between the penis in the prone position and the bedding to ejaculate. However, the most common and direct way of masturbation is to hold your penis and give a certain intensity of friction, or twitch up and down to achieve ejaculation and obtain self-satisfying sexual pleasure, which is commonly referred to as masturbation. Women's masturbation methods are more complicated. In addition to the masturbation behaviors that revolve around vaginal stimulation, it also includes stimulation of the vulva (labia major, clitoris), breasts and other parts.
Various masturbation methods are summed up by people's continuous exploration in practice. As long as it does not hinder others, you can find and explore various masturbation methods, but the premise is that you will not be hurt. Some methods of assisting masturbation are safe and effective, while some methods have potential hidden dangers, which may cause damage to reproductive organs and easily induce infection, and should be banned.
3. View masturbation objectively
Masturbation is definitely not a sinful behavior. The view that masturbation is harmful in the past has gradually been diluted, but the prejudice of mainstream culture still believes that masturbation is only a supplement to sexual intercourse. The reality is that masturbation has the value of independent sexual behavior, is one of the standard sexual behaviors, and can obtain the same physiological response as sexual intercourse. Moderate masturbation will not cause any harm to the body, and making good use of it can also make up for the shortcomings of people’s inability to have sex life, such as unmarried youth, separated husband and wife, divorced and widowed, patients with venereal diseases, disabled people, and spouses who are sick and cannot have sex. It is conducive to radiating greater enthusiasm and energy for work.
Masturbation can also be used to collect semen samples for clinical examination, and healthy men can also donate their own semen through masturbation. Masturbation will not infect any sexually transmitted diseases, nor will it involve others, or be involved in derailed sexual behaviors and emotional entanglements, nor will it lead to sexual assault or even sexual crimes, and avoid moral and social problems caused by sexual problems. . Therefore, masturbation itself is harmless, you must go with the flow and do not have psychological pressure, so as to avoid guilt, self-blame and other emotions afterwards, and it is easy to have many "imagined" diseases due to the fear caused by misunderstanding of masturbation, or will My own disease is far-fetchedly linked to masturbation.
Occasionally, masturbation can bring some minor troubles to people, mainly including the difficulty for very few men to successfully complete the transition from masturbation to sexual intercourse, the difficulty in controlling their yearning for masturbation, the fear that masturbation will cause diseases and damage their health, and after the exposure of masturbation behavior of embarrassment.
4. Prevention and treatment of masturbation
It is not appropriate to accuse those who have masturbated, let alone exaggerate and intimidate, otherwise it will increase their ideological burden. only when masturbation is too frequent and disrupts normal work and study, and self-correction is difficult to achieve the desired effect, should receive necessary medical consultation and auxiliary treatment, including drug treatment. The key is to treat the phenomenon of masturbation scientifically and focus on prevention, especially for adolescents who are in the stage of sexual development. The mental state is unstable, and psychological counseling and sex education should be the main focus to avoid puppy love and obsession with sex, and cultivate a wide range of hobbies and sexes. Interest, reduce adverse sexual stimuli to control masturbation thoughts, turn attention from masturbation to healthy daily life and social activities, pay attention to life adjustment, avoid wearing tights, sleep on time, dinner should not be too full, bedding should not be used during sleep Too warm and too heavy, sleeping on your back and prone, and avoid irritating meals (such as tobacco, alcohol, coffee, spicy food, etc.) for dinner. Develop good hygiene habits, wash and keep the vulva clean frequently, and remove the bad stimulation of the build-up in the foreskin. For those with inflammation of the reproductive system, such as foreskin capitis, symptomatic treatment such as anti-inflammatory drugs can eliminate the local discomfort of the patient and help reduce the urge to masturbate induced by adverse stimuli.
Generally speaking, it is not necessary and impossible to completely abstain from masturbation behavior. Masturbation behavior within a certain frequency does not need to be prevented, and popular education is very important. In short, for those who do not understand masturbation, it is not necessary to induce him to pay attention to and discuss this issue; and for those who already have masturbation behaviors, they should scientifically understand masturbation and give reasonable guidance.
