Basic Information
Western medicine name: orgasm
Chinese medicine name sex: orgasm
English name: orgasm
Department: Surgery - Urology
Location: Genitals
Infectious: not contagious
concept
Orgasm is the physical and psychological response to sexual pleasure after sexual stimulation. There are usually physical manifestations such as ejaculation, blushing, and convulsions.
Classification
In today's construction of a harmonious society, the family is the basic cell of the society, and sex is one of the important contents of the family. Therefore, sexual harmony is the basis for the construction of a harmonious society. Satisfactory orgasm is an important sign of sexual harmony. A harmonious sex life will make the family harmonious and the society harmonious. Paying attention to orgasm is a manifestation of the progress of social civilization.
male orgasm
Most male orgasms are expressed in ejaculation, which is very short, about 3 to 10 seconds. After ejaculation is also the end of orgasm, at this time the penis will gradually get out of the erection state. called a period of weakness. According to a survey by sexologist Dr. Hartore, about 17% of male orgasms are manifested by anal contractions alone, and the contraction time can be slightly longer than the ejaculation time, about 1 to 2 minutes. After orgasm, the anus will gradually relax.
Orgasm is often accomplished by rubbing the nipple or touching the penis. Male orgasm is also related to prostate stimulation, so the prostate is also known as the male G-spot in recent years. After ejaculation is also the end of orgasm, at this time the penis will gradually get out of the erection state. In the case of men receiving prostate massage or anal sex, with a certain psychological effect, orgasm, the so-called prostate pleasure, can also lead to ejaculation without erection.
no ejaculation orgasm
Male orgasmic pleasure is not produced by ejaculation: some people have multiple intercourse in a day, and the last sex is often pleasure without ejaculation. The reason for the pleasure is that the contraction of the gonad organs and the pelvic floor muscles occurs as usual, while the lack of ejaculation occurs because the stored semen has been ejaculated after multiple consecutive sexual intercourse, so there is pleasure, ejaculation, but no semen. discharge phenomenon. Don't make ejaculation the ultimate goal.
1. Make it clear that orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Adult men can ejaculate without sexual activity and orgasm, and those who do not ejaculate can experience orgasm. Although modern medicine has proved that forbearance is not good for health, for special groups such as premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, and vas deferens obstruction, this theory has also become the driving force for them to have the courage to have sex. For example, for men with premature ejaculation, if the timing of ejaculation is properly controlled, the pleasure of the sexual plateau can be increased, and ultimately the intensity of orgasm can be increased.
2. The closer the relationship is, the easier it is for men to obtain sexual pleasure, and men can have multiple orgasms. Most men think that the process of getting orgasm is linear, so in the process of sex, they are more concerned about how to control their behavior in order to make their wives orgasm one after another. However, experts in the study found that because the orgasm and ejaculation do not completely coincide, so men can also have multiple orgasms.
Men get multiple orgasms. The point is not to focus on ejaculation. Through continuous training during sexual intercourse, find the critical point before ejaculation, and stop sexual stimulation when there is obvious pleasure but the ejaculation threshold is not reached. In this way Repeating it many times, and finally ejaculating, is equivalent to getting several orgasms without ejaculation and orgasm with one ejaculation.
3. Slow down and breathe deeply. Many couples know how to caress each other to achieve orgasm. If you want an unexpected surprise in bed and heightened pre-orgasm pleasure, the solution is simple: have sex as you did before, but this time consciously slow down and experience it for several times as long.
Holding your breath can increase muscle tension and strength. Unlike heartbeat and blood pressure, the respiratory system is the only physiological system that can be artificially controlled while being affected by sex. Deep breathing can promote blood flow to the sex organs and increase the power of orgasm.
female orgasm
The female orgasm is the same as that of the male, the female is produced by the constant stimulation of the clitoris, while the male is produced by the constant stimulation of the glans. There are usually several physical manifestations: a woman's clitoris swells and protrudes, throbbing with orgasm.
The sphincter of the female vagina contracts intermittently.
Women have increased vaginal discharge.
Women will yell or groan unconsciously, also known as bed wailing.
After the orgasm, women do not immediately recede from the orgasm like men, but are often still intoxicated by it, which is called "afterglow". Some women may experience muscle weakness after orgasm, which may temporarily make women feel weak in their legs.
Some women feel full of energy after orgasm, and their skin is very rosy.
Some women experience an orgasm with a gust of secretions called female squirting, mainly from the Skirn's glands. Some sexologists say that only 25 to 30 women out of 100 have this experience.
Two manifestations of female orgasm
Researches on female orgasms that have gradually matured in the past two or three decades have shown that female orgasms are not only vaginal orgasms. They can get sexual pleasure in another way.
Freud divided the female orgasm into two types: clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm. The latest foreign statistics show that 50% of women can get real pleasure through clitoral stimulation, and women can clearly describe the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasms. For example, they describe clitoral orgasms as "warm, ticklish, shocking and sharp"; while vaginal orgasms are "deep, throbbing, soothing and comfortable." Many women describe orgasms as having a completely different feeling when they have a phallus in their vagina and when they feel empty.
During sex, clitoral stimulation is even more important for women if vaginal stimulation does not experience sexual pleasure. With such a correct understanding of the female orgasm, the sexual life of both spouses will be better coordinated, so as to achieve a happy and fulfilling marriage.
The relationship between male ejaculation and female orgasm
In real life, most women do get aroused by the influx of semen, which is unexplained biologically but psychologically related.
We know that human sexual behavior includes sexual physiology and sexual psychology. From the perspective of sexual physiology, ejaculation has little effect on female orgasm. Because in the process of sexual intercourse, there is generally no pleasure in the middle and deep parts of the vagina, because only the part of the vagina close to the vaginal opening has nerves connected to the clitoris, and stimulating this part will produce a certain degree of pleasure.
First, the idea of vaginal orgasm is still in the minds of many women. Even if they fully stimulate the clitoris, they can already achieve orgasm, but they are still shocked by the lack of strong or no pleasure in the vagina, and even inhibit the appearance of orgasm. They believe that it is the most effective and intense stimulation to the vagina, and following this logical reasoning, sex life will naturally become "boring" without this moment. However, this kind of thinking is wrong. It is not who is bearing, who is paying for whom. only two people work together. When a man ejaculates, he is accompanied by the rapid ejection of semen, the strong erection of the penis, and the spasms of the muscles in the whole body. Let the woman truly feel the full beauty and infinite magic of sex, and the vitality and shocking power shown by the man at this moment will also make the woman very fond of it. Therefore, it has been said that it is not so much the woman's vaginal vault that the semen hits in the jet, but that the essence of the man, which is thicker than water, nourishes the whole world of the woman's body and mind.
Therefore, men's ejaculation is not only the embodiment of their own orgasm, but also the soothing of the woman's body and mind.
time
Singapore's "Sing Tao Daily" reported that urology experts pointed out that men can only maintain 2.5 seconds per orgasm. In this way, if the sexual ability is maintained for 40 years and there are two sexual intercourse a week, a man can enjoy an orgasm of about 2 hours, 53 minutes and 20 seconds in his lifetime. And women's orgasm is even shorter than that.
He believes that "the reality is worse." The survey shows that couples will have more regular and frequent sex within two or three years after marriage. As the child is born, all kinds of physical contact will gradually decrease. Many couples reach their 40s and 50s without even kissing and hugging.
If you want to increase your orgasm time, you might as well develop more feelings with your partner and don't let your sexual desire disappear so early.
Performance
Similarities between men and women
The genitals of both men and women are similarly engorged after sexual stimulation; blood rushes into the organ, causing it to swell; the skin is red, the heart is pounding, breathing is aggravated, and the muscles regularly contract about ten times per second. of eight times. The first few contractions are the strongest, and the subsequent ones may be less regular and less intense. Brainwave patterns all change dramatically, perceptual states actually change, and orgasms make a person lose their minds.
Most people think that a man's orgasm comes quickly, violently, and explosively, while a woman feels a surge of ups and downs throughout her body.
In describing the feeling of orgasm, both men and women wrote of a tidal build-up of mental tension, the beginning of the heart beating with extreme rapidity "the euphoria of the whole body," an increasing rhythm of jitters, bursts, and warmth and serenity in the body. And both men and women became very poetic: "Orgasms feel like heaven in a fiery hell"; "Orgasms are like jumping into a cool swimming pool after hours of sweaty harassment"; "Orgasms are like a sunny day It's like dumping garbage in a vast open green field."
1. I feel like an orgasm is like a wave of passion growing and expanding. First, I noticed a rather localized sensation of movement, which then spread throughout the body. After orgasm, I felt tired and infinitely comfortable.
2. To me, orgasm seems to happen by accident. I can't tell how or why it happened, but I felt a sudden shock and then suddenly disappeared. I tend to wish I had only experienced that once.
3. Just before orgasm, I usually feel a muscle contraction. When the orgasm came, I felt like my whole body was about to explode, then quickly turned into a deep sense of relief, so I felt like I could barely move.
4. My anxiety about sex does keep me from reaching orgasm. There are times when I feel the excitement multiple times, but I'm usually too repressed to let it go.
Dissimilarity
1: Characteristics of male sexual desire
More easily stimulated, leading to sexual impulses, generally 20 to 40 years old is the golden period, after which the sexual ability gradually declines. But due to personal physical problems can prolong their golden period.
2: Characteristics of female sexual desire
It focuses more on psychological stimulation, and the sexual desire is generally less obvious and direct than that of men. The golden age begins at the age of 35, and the sexual desire increases. So a forty-year-old woman is like a wolf like a tiger, which has a certain scientific basis.
reaction
Orgasm is a natural human body and mind response, but it also has its own internal level of distinction.
First of all, orgasm depends on sexual behavior. In the sexual life of husband and wife, orgasm may occur only after sexual intercourse. Therefore, the first level, or the least level, of orgasm is its possibility.
Second, after sexual intercourse, orgasm does not necessarily occur. Therefore, whether it can reach an objectively existing orgasm is its second level.
According to Master and Johnson's research, for men, the experience of orgasm is focused on the inside, feeling muscle contractions in places like the penis, prostate and seminal vesicles. Women's orgasm experience is also mainly psychological. She feels that the deep vagina and surrounding muscles are contracting. When orgasm arrives, the muscles of the whole body of both men and women are in a tense state, and muscles such as limbs, fingers, tongue and face may appear. of twitching contractions, especially in women.
female orgasm response
From the following 10 actions of a woman, you can see how happy she is. But it does not mean that every woman will have this process or reaction, it varies from person to person, and sometimes even the same person, there will be a certain difference between the two times.
1. Bend your feet and hook the man's body to push the penis deeper.
2. The intersection of the two legs means that the vagina is unbearable.
4. When you bend up and lean against a man, you are already on the way to orgasm.
5. The whole body is stretched vertically, showing that the limbs and bones have reached the peak of happiness.
6. The body fluids in the vulva flow freely, indicating that it has reached the peak of sexy and completed the climax.
7. When you hold a man with both hands, you want to hug each other tightly and touch the genitals.
8. Stretching the double strands is to hope that the upper part of the pussy is fully rubbed.
9. If you show your belly, it is nothing more than a hope that the man will ejaculate.
10. The buttocks move, showing that the woman has pleasure.
female orgasm
1. clitoral orgasm
Refers to the simple stimulation of the clitoris to achieve orgasm, with fingers, tongue or sexual tools can be. This orgasm comes quickly and can be reached multiple times.
2. Nipple orgasm
Not all women can orgasm by stimulating their nipples, but some can experience extreme pleasure when the partner nibbles and caresses their breasts.
3. Vaginal orgasm
It is an orgasm caused by vaginal and uterine stimulation through penis movement. For most women, vaginal rubbing can not only bring physical pleasure, but also emotional satisfaction.
4. G-spot orgasm
On the front wall of the vagina, 2-3 cm from the vaginal opening, there is a highly sensitive area, which is easily stimulated by pressure to produce orgasm, which is also known as the G-spot.
5. Anal orgasm
Some women have an orgasm during anal sex and feel it intensely. Some say it feels unique.
6. Sustained orgasm
It means that after a woman reaches orgasm, the pleasure does not subside immediately, but lasts for a period of time.
7. Multiple orgasms
As the name suggests, it means that after reaching an orgasm, you immediately get another. Since women have no refractory period, multiple orgasms are not difficult to feel.
Some women feel a sense of loss of control during orgasm, manifested as loud screaming and moaning; constantly scratching and biting the bedding, pillows and the body of their sexual partner, this is the most vulnerable moment. If you feel that this feeling should not occur, or if you are afraid of "gazing," then normal orgasm will be suppressed, or even not reproduced for life.
discomfort after orgasm
Orgasm is always fascinating, but at the peak of happiness, some people will "Taiji not come", "orgasm disease", which greatly reduces sex, and even becomes afraid. So, what to do with these dissonant molecules?
make plans
Knowing the cause of the headache, when your partner says he/she has a headache, you can take care of him (her) according to the following principles:
1. Preventive medication. If you have a history of high blood pressure and migraine headaches, you can take a small amount of blood pressure medication or analgesics before sexual intercourse.
2. Create a good intercourse atmosphere. The environment for sexual intercourse should be quiet, the indoor should pay attention to ventilation, and at the same time have a good mood.
3. Pay attention to the combination of work and rest. Sex life should not be too frequent, you should pay attention to control your emotions, stop when you are enough, and don't get too excited.
4. Pay attention to the art of sex. After sexual intercourse, you can continue to be warm, and do not get up immediately unless there are special circumstances. Don't be too hasty to switch positions during sex. To imitate some difficult postures, pay attention to your own ability.
5. Pay attention to the accompanying symptoms. If dizziness, headache, or even chest tightness, suffocation, palpitations or discomfort in the chest area occur repeatedly after intercourse, you must not take it lightly. Go to the hospital in time to measure blood pressure, do EEG, Brain ultrasound, electrocardiogram and other examinations for early detection of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases.
Before the newlyweds have sex, they should learn about the anatomy and physiology of male and female genitalia, male and female sexual life, and sexual hygiene. If syncope has occurred, you can immediately remove the pillow and lie down, turn your head to one side, raise your lower limbs with a pillow, and use acupuncture or acupressure on Renzhong (the middle of the nasolabial fold) and Hegu (the dorsal side of the tiger's mouth). It improves, and after the patient wakes up, you can take some sugar water. If it is accompanied by skin itching, on the basis of the above treatment, you should go to the hospital for help, and take some anti-allergic drugs, such as chlorpheniramine, assimil, etc. under the guidance of a doctor. If syncope occurs frequently, you should go to the hospital to carefully check whether there are other diseases in the body.
asthma
Asthma often occurs in women, and in order to clear this obstacle in married life, we must first understand the cause of its attack:
1. Semen allergy. It is not uncommon for a wife to be allergic to the natural antigenic components in her husband's semen, such as glycoproteins. In addition, certain ingredients in the drugs, food or chemicals that the husband has taken can enter the semen and may also trigger the wife's asthma attack during sex. In foreign countries, it was reported that the husband took aspirin and walnut before intercourse, which caused his wife to have an asthma attack during intercourse. This type of allergic reaction often occurs immediately after sexual intercourse, with large patches of erythema, papules and itching appearing all over the body; congestion and edema of the lips, eyelids and throat, causing difficulty in breathing. Symptoms of local allergic reactions include vaginal burning and stinging, vaginal and labia redness, urticaria and itching in the labia.
2. Contraceptive response. The most common adverse reactions of oral contraceptives are early pregnancy-like reactions, irregular uterine bleeding, and amenorrhea. Very few people have allergic reactions to oral contraceptives and develop asthma of varying degrees.
3. Allergic to condoms. The condoms are contaminated with some sensitizing antigenic substances after the first use or unsealing, which can cause allergies and induce asthma.
4. Body odor and sweat allergy. Some couples find that if their husbands have sex after taking a bath, they are safe and sound, but if they are in a hurry and do not rinse, they often fail. In fact, this is the smell of sweat. Heterosexual odors have dual effects on people, which can affect people's endocrine, blood pressure, heart rate, respiration and nerve activity, making them in the best physiological state, and can also cause spasm in the bronchi and bronchioles of a few people, leading to asthma.
5. Allergic to clothing. The clothes and bedding you wear at the time of the attack must be new. These unused clothes may become allergens and become an important cause of asthma.
6. New house allergies. The materials used in house decoration, such as paint and paint, contain many harmful substances, some of which are seriously exceeding the standard, which seriously endangers people's health. Asthma is one of them.
7. Mental factors. Asthma is an airway hyperresponsive disease, and some people with high sensitivity are easily influenced by mental factors, such as hyperventilation caused by mental stimulant hysteria, which can induce asthma attacks. Foreign scholars have found that among asthmatic patients, 15% are induced by mental factors alone, and 50% have allergies combined with mental factors. On the wedding day, some brides with poor psychological quality are afraid of pain during sexual intercourse, anxiety and tension, which can also induce asthma.
