Entry overview: Blowjob, because the action of blowjob and blowjob is somewhat similar, so the process of women giving men oral sex is called blowjob.
Basic Information
Chinese name: blowpipe
Also Known As: Oral Sex
Pinyin: chuī xiāo
Definition: sexual act
basic introduction
There are many words used to describe oral sex, both elegant and vulgar. Common Chinese words for oral sex for men are "blow flute" or "pinxiao", "hot dog sausage with carp mouth", "bite" (separate the font from left to right), or vulgar "ha stick", "eat sausage". ", "eat bananas", "eat hot dogs", "blow the trumpet", "eat mushrooms". It is also common to use the word "contain" alone, such as "contain stick". There is a word in Wu dialect for "sucking eggs", which literally means oral sex for men, and is extended to "useless" in daily life.
Related History
In the sexual descriptions of ancient Chinese literature books, the word Dianluandoufeng actually refers to the contact between the mouth and the genitals of men and women, and some eunuchs in the palace also like to let the palace maids give themselves oral sex and then soothe their lower bodies to satisfy themselves , see because the direction of the two people is completely opposite, Westerners are vividly called 69-style.
In the Middle Ages, oral sex was regarded as a taboo in the Western world. Before that, there was no special restriction. Oral sex was more or less accepted by those countries that implemented a system of rules and regular bathing.
But obvious taboos remained: in pre-Christian Rome, the act was seen as subjugation and control, as evidenced by two Latin words: irrumare (to lick with the mouth) and fellare (to be licked by the mouth). Under this system, a man is reduced in social status by licking (being controlled) during sex; the same logic allows a man to accept a woman or a man of lower status (such as a slave or debtor) to lick his penis, so that Can control the actions of people of inferior status. The Romans considered oral sex worse, even anal sex (those people were as unwelcome as dinner guests). Ironically, the women of Lesbos, who are believed to be the introducers of oral sex, say they use semen to bleach their lips.
So, in Greece, the person who "performs" oral sex is the subject, and the person who "receives" it is the object. In Roman times, sucking and cunnilingus were objects, so it was a shame for a man to do that. Oral sex between people of low social status is redundant and considered taboo. So the person who "performs" oral sex is the object (in the submissive state), and the person who "receives" oral sex is the subject (in the controlling state). Oral sex as a taboo also has public health considerations. In Rome, the genitals were considered unclean, and oral sex would leave the mouth dirty and ultimately lead to public health problems.
In the West and many other countries, oral sex is still illegal, as is sodomy. Oral sex is illegal in many states in the United States. Until 1977, a couple who accidentally exposed photos of oral sex to others were arraigned by the court and finally sentenced to 5 years in prison. However, more and more Americans are tolerant of oral sex, especially among young people, oral sex can be regarded as a routine, and it is rarely regarded as a pervert. There is also a clear tendency to have a higher incidence of oral sex among the more literate populations.
But those laws generally target same-sex people. The spirit of its definition was on full display in the Lewinsky scandal of 1998, when US President Bill Clinton repeatedly claimed that "I had no sexual relationship with that woman," but kept accepting that Monica Lewinsky blowjob. In fact, Lewinsky ended his relationship with Clinton, and then responded in a phone interview to whether or not to have sex: "No, we're just having fun."
The idea that oral sex is not real sex is widespread among younger generations, and is almost entirely different from the previous moralization of oral sex. Oral sex used to be considered dirty, at least it was one of the most intimate relationships between two people. One possible consequence of oral sex is "group sex", "blowjobs" on men, with lipstick on their penis as testimony.
Precautions
Pleasure is a very important element of sexuality. Therefore, the first step in breaking the psychological barrier of oral sex is to be happy with your partner's happiness. As for how to get your partner to enjoy oral sex, just follow these five principles:
1. If you feel dirty, or there are other taboos such as religion, try to discuss it openly and honestly with your partner.
2. Clean your body—especially important parts—before you go to bed, which is a sign of being considerate to your partner.
3. Give your partner some time to adjust psychologically. When your partner agrees, remember to encourage and praise each other.
4. Some oral sex positions are different from sexual intercourse, and let the person who has an opinion choose the position. Of course, both parties can communicate well.
5. A lot of knowledge and skills can be learned through appropriate books or videotapes.
Related evaluation
In general, oral sex is a healthy, normal and common sexual act. The Sexual Function of Oral Sex People have come to realize that oral sex is more than normal. The prevalence of oral sex is certainly related to people's tolerant attitude towards sex, but it cannot be denied that it is related to the progress of today's technological civilization.
A survey data shows that 42% of women who have oral sex experience feel that their marriage is happy, while only 23% of women who have no oral sex experience feel happy. Oral sex is a blessing for people with various sexual dysfunctions. As long as it occurs between husband and wife, the sexual behavior that both parties can accept is normal sexual behavior. Physiologically speaking, oral sex is the closest or in some ways even surpassing sexual intercourse. Because the oral mucosa is soft, smooth and powerful, these can not only have a powerful and pleasant stimulating effect on the penis, but also produce obvious sexual excitement and pleasure for women. Due to the flexible change of the neck, oral sex can have different positions.
Oral sex without ejaculation as foreplay is a good arousal, some women have high sexual desire during menstruation, some men still want to have sex during women's menstrual period, oral sex is the best alternative, there is inflammation in the vagina or no Oral sex is also a good choice during the non-safe period of contraceptive measures. Many people just use oral sex as a play and still end up with vaginal sex, or the occasional fresh pleasure of cumshot, which is more acceptable.
Oral sex is more shameful for ordinary people to ask for it, but people who have tasted oral sex will like the pleasure brought by oral sex. Oral sex can also be regarded as one of the contents of foreplay. Men give women oral sex, or women give men Oral sex can allow both parties to enjoy the pleasure of sexual intercourse first, and some people may orgasm during oral sex. Oral sex can also stimulate the mood better, and it is a good way to improve sexual desire. When you witness your lover oral sex for yourself, or to give each other oral sex, it will be a great mental stimulation, which will make both parties have a lot of interest.
