Gender Knowledge Encyclopedia
1. about sex
1. Sex with love is called making love; conversely, it is called sexual intercourse.
2. One-night stands and sexual indulgence are not illegal, but they are harmful to health.
3. Please don't ask how to persuade/deceive/coax your mm to go to bed; this will make everyone feel that your behavior is only controlled by sexual impulses; only when the love is strong, everything will come naturally...
4. A harmonious and happy sex life is an integral part of a happy marriage; a sexless marriage can be painful, I think.
5. Sex, in many cases, means commitment and responsibility; please consider this matter carefully before you are sure that your shoulders can bear enough weight.
6. Before having sex, think carefully about whether you should use contraception, instead of just thinking about how to be happier; otherwise, the days after happiness will only be torture.
7. Four things to pay attention to in the first sex life: gentle movement - appropriate location - attention to hygiene - contraception.
8. Before you start your sexual journey, prepare enough sex knowledge - so that you don't force yourself into a situation where you have to make amends.
9. A word for boys, although it is a bit old: a woman will never forget or even love her first man in her life.
10. By the way, a little useless reminder: having sex with a girl under the age of 14, whether the girl consents or not, is a crime.
2. about virgins/virgins
1. The hymen is just a layer of fragile connective tissue; it's normal that there is no redness during the first sex. There are many reasons for a ruptured hymen besides sex.
2. Black nipples and labia in women are the result of pigmentation and have nothing to do with being a virgin.
3. Don't try to judge whether a girl is a virgin or not from her physical appearance. There is no scientific basis for any such method. must judge? It's no use going to the doctor...
4. Of course you can have a virgin/virgin plot, it's your own choice, and it's understandable; but here's a word for you - don't "only allow officials to set fires, and people are not allowed to light lamps".
5. Another word for girls: it's better not to tell gg about your past; maybe he doesn't care that you are not a virgin, but for you, forgetting everything in the past may be the greatest loyalty to your lover.
3. about STDs and AIDS
1. At present, there are nearly 1 million people living with HIV according to official reports in my country; what should I do? What not to do? Think clearly.
2. AIDS is transmitted through blood, body fluids, and mother-to-child vertical transmission; and normal daily contact with HIV carriers is not contagious at all.
3. After the unclean sex life, out of a responsible attitude towards yourself and your lover, please go to the hospital to check whether you are infected with STDs and AIDS.
4. Don't think that STDs are easy to treat: even under the current medical conditions, some STDs cannot be cured! For example, tertiary syphilis can kill you!
5, some sexually transmitted diseases may also be transmitted through non-sexual means.
The following popular science knowledge about contraception, pregnancy, and abortion, it is very important for female friends to master the following knowledge. Let's take a look together.
Fourth, about contraception
1. The safety period is not safe.
2. Yuting is not a panacea or a life-saving straw.
3. After taking Yuting, it may lead to menstrual disorders in the next few months, and may cause irregular vaginal bleeding during non-menstrual period; and this is only a little external manifestation of Yuting's side effects.
4. Condoms are a safe and effective contraceptive method; at the same time, they can also effectively prevent STDs and AIDS.
5. Condoms can be bought in large supermarkets, pharmacies, etc.; you should use good quality condoms, don't just buy cheap ones and buy inferior ones; you should also pay attention to using the correct method.
6. Don't say that having sex with tt is like putting on a raincoat to take a bath - but remember, letting mm take birth control pills for a long time is to let mm self-harm!
7. Under the current level of medical science, any type of oral contraceptives have side effects!
8. External ejaculation is very unsafe: a small amount of semen flows out during sex, and it is not easy for men to control their movements when they reach orgasm.
9. The contraceptive ring is not suitable for unmarried and childless women and is not recommended; similarly, ligation is not suitable for unmarried and childless men.
10. Borderline sex may indeed lead to pregnancy, but the probability is very small.
5. about pregnancy
1. If menstruation has come, it fully shows that there is no pregnancy. (Of course, a small amount of vaginal bleeding may also occur after pregnancy, but it is easy to judge from the appearance, which is obviously different from menstruation)
2. If your period is overdue after risky (possible pregnancy) sex, please use an early pregnancy test (or go directly to the hospital) immediately. 28 days when menstruation is delayed, you can use test strips to check whether you are pregnant; because if you are pregnant, the hcg value in the urine reaches the peak at this time; pay attention to the correct use method, and it is best to use morning urine.
3. For women with regular menstruation, it is very normal to occasionally delay or within 7 days of menstruation, because there are many factors that affect women's menstruation (such as weather, diet, emotions, physical conditions, etc.); This delay or extension will generally not exceed 14 days.
4. If the menstrual period has been delayed for more than 14 days and does not come, then no matter what the test paper test results are, please go to the hospital for a systematic examination to avoid unexpected situations.
5. Nausea, vomiting, anorexia and other early pregnancy reactions generally occur after 5-6 weeks of pregnancy (that is, at least 1 week of menopause); don't make random guesses because of this, please remember to use early pregnancy test strips.
6. about abortion
1. Whether it is human abortion or drug abortion, in a sense, it is the destruction of women's physical and mental health; can you bear the weight of life?
2. Abortion should be performed within 14 weeks of pregnancy; if it exceeds 14 weeks, only more painful labor induction can be done.
3. The medical abortion should be carried out within 49 days of pregnancy; the medical abortion may cause unclean flow, which requires a painful curettage.
4. Repeated miscarriages (whether human or medical) will thin the uterine wall, resulting in infertility or habitual miscarriage.
5. After miscarriage, menstruation usually resumes within 30-40 days; after miscarriage, you should go to the hospital for review on time according to the doctor's advice.
6. After a miscarriage, it is absolutely strictly forbidden to have sex within one month! ! ! (Forgive me for using 3 exclamation marks here, I actually want to use more)
7. Prescription drugs are used in medical abortion. Do not operate medical abortion without doctor's advice; otherwise, the consequences will be disastrous.
8. The painless abortion surgery that is widely carried out at present can reduce the pain caused by the abortion to a certain extent; if the unfortunate pregnancy requires an abortion, this may be the best way among many painful options.
9. After abortion, you should pay attention to adequate rest and proper maintenance to avoid leaving some sequelae.
10. If pregnancy is //confirm/i/ied, the sooner the abortion operation is performed, the better; therefore, you must pay close attention to the situation. If the test strip indicates a positive result, immediately go to the hospital for diagnosis and contact the abortion matters.
In sexual life, the most important thing is to pay attention to health and hygiene. The following is some popular knowledge about gender health and other gender knowledge. Paying attention to gender health is the most responsible approach to your partner, and it is also the most basic common sense of sex.
7. about Gender Health
1. Smegma is an important cause of testicular cancer in men and cervical cancer in their spouses; this is why removal of the foreskin is recommended for all men with phimosis and foreskin.
2. Please pay attention to the cleanliness of the genitals, which should be cleaned frequently, especially for men! Even more so before sex.
3. The female vagina has a strong self-cleaning ability. If you do not respect the doctor's advice, please do not abuse the vaginal lotion. (while vulvar lotion can be used)
4. The use of pads is not the best choice; choosing cotton underwear and changing underwear frequently is more conducive to the cleaning and hygiene of female vulva.
5. Women should pay close attention to the changes of leucorrhea; if there are obvious changes in odor, color, and character, they should suspect gynecological inflammation, and please go to the hospital for examination and treatment as soon as possible; self-medication may delay treatment and may aggravate symptoms.
6. Symptoms such as backache and back pain appear after sex, indicating that the physical exertion is too large, and you should pay more attention to rest at this time; this is the most basic requirement of sexual health - do what you can.
7. Sexual mental health is also an aspect worthy of attention; if you find yourself confused about sexual psychology and it is difficult to solve it yourself, you should consult a professional psychologist as soon as possible.
8. Sexual fantasy is a very normal behavior, but it should be noted that it should not be overly dependent on fantasy to achieve sexual satisfaction.
9. Sexual deviation (such as fetishes, voyeurism, etc.) is a kind of mental illness that requires systematic psychotherapy.
10. The healthy performance of sexual psychology and sexual physiology can bring people plenty of vitality; face up to their sexual needs and pursue sexual health is the behavior that should be promoted, not something "sorry".
Eight, about sex as I wish
1. You can have sex wildly and wildly; but you need to find a quiet and comfortable place, not in the playground where the night is dim, in the bedroom where the roommates are sleeping...
2. No one is born a master of SEX; only by slowly running in and practicing with your partner, your sex will become perfect day by day.
3. Are you going out to open a room? Remember to bring ID on both sides - it's still a socialist country after all.
4. Do you want to play SM? Anal sex? Yes, but it is best to seek the consent of your partner first, and pay attention to safety and hygiene.
5. Sex is an easy game between people who love each other; don't always use the same way - change tricks, invent a lot, and you will be high to the extreme.
6. Call the bed? Hehe, bark freely and don't feel shy; let your man know you're happy - that's the best way to encourage him.
7. A girl's sexual interest needs to be developed by gg; keep exploring, and slowly you will take her into the mysterious garden of sex.
8. Learn to reject the other party - don't force yourself when you don't want to; also don't force the other party. only when both parties actively and enthusiastically invest, can such sex be alive.
9. The semen is non-toxic, and it is up to you to swallow it.
10. Sex is what "I" means - so, the way that suits you is the best way; your own experience is the most important!
