When it comes to "sex", many women feel ashamed to open their mouths. In fact, a proper understanding of sexual life knowledge is conducive to the harmony of married life, such as being able to achieve orgasm better. However, not everyone has an orgasm, and women who can achieve orgasm are unlikely to achieve orgasm every time they have sex, because there are many factors that can affect orgasm. So why is it so hard for women to have an orgasm? When is the best time for a woman to have sex for the first time? Next, we will introduce them one by one for your reference.
Why is it so hard for women to have an orgasm?
1. There is no safe birth control.
Some young men and women have sex without taking safe and reliable contraceptive measures, because they are too worried about whether it will cause pregnancy, mental stress, and it is impossible to achieve orgasm.
2. Physical discomfort or disease.
Some women reluctantly meet their husband's request to have sex when they are unwell, but they are unable to do so and worry about their husband's dissatisfaction, which naturally affects their orgasm. Sometimes due to genital inflammation, causing pain during sexual intercourse, affecting orgasm.
3. The influence of negative attitudes formed during adolescence.
Many women have received inappropriate sex education in their teenage years or childhood. According to psychoanalytic theory, these negative sexual concepts are hidden in the subconscious mind and have a profound impact on sexual attitudes and behaviors in adulthood. .
4. The husband has sexual dysfunction.
Some women are completely normal, but the husband has sexual dysfunction, especially premature ejaculation, which makes it almost difficult for women to achieve orgasm. If the husband knows how to caress the clitoris or the mouth and the genitals, some women can achieve clitoral orgasm, otherwise they will not achieve orgasm at all.
5. Adverse sexual experiences in early years.
Individual women have had bad sexual experiences at a certain period before marriage, such as rape, seduction, and abandonment after premarital sex, so after formal marriage, their past experiences have a significant impact. Some women worry about hymen problems, which can be both offensive to sex and guilt that can interfere with orgasm.
6. Poor sexual intercourse environment.
Sex life is a very private activity. No one other than the couple can participate. If the sex life environment is unsafe, such as sharing a room with other people, or the walls are not soundproof, you are worried that there are ears on the partition wall or that someone will temporarily disturb you. And so on, will cause mental tension, energy is not easy to concentrate, will naturally affect the arrival of orgasm.
7, lack of sexual knowledge.
If women want to achieve orgasm, they must have corresponding psychological preparation and good foreplay, so that women can achieve obvious sexual excitement. Men should caress the erogenous zone of women, and it should be done gradually and not in a hurry. Men should also be aware of some of the signs that women are sexually aroused, such as breast enlargement, the appearance of sexual flushing, clitoral bulge, swollen labia, darkening of the girdle, and vaginal discharge.
When is the best time for a woman to have sex for the first time?
Everyone knows that people who start sex too early are susceptible to STDs. However, research has shown that if a woman "first" pushes too late, it can also have a negative impact on sexual function. The study highlighted that those who lost their virginity after age 23 were more prone to sexual dysfunctions such as difficulty arousal, erectile dysfunction or inability to achieve orgasm. And the later the time, the more serious the problem.
The researchers also analyzed that the delay of young people's first sexual behavior is largely influenced by psychological factors, such as fear of intimate contact, lack of confidence in their own bodies, etc., and some people worry that poor sexual skills will leave the other party behind. bad impression. In addition, many young men and women have the wrong concept of sex, and it is easy for them to stay away from sex. The common misunderstanding of girls is that "good girls should not desire and enjoy sex", which tends to make them self-enclosed in sexual requirements, which can easily lead to frigidity over time.
From the above, it is known that when a woman has a relationship for the first time, she must choose the best time. Too early or too late is not good for your health.
