The virginity complex has quite a market in China. Men are proud of having a woman for the first time, but it is inconvenient to check directly, so they spend all their time looking for clues from appearances and words. Recently, the hot online "look, hear, ask, and cut" virginity identification method has caused a lot of controversy. Is this identification method really reliable? Is there really a way to identify the authenticity of the hymen?
The hot online "look, hear, ask, and cut" virgin identification method:
Wang: It is to observe its posture and look. Generally speaking, there are several main places that can be carefully observed. First, the legs. The legs are straight, and the thighs are very close when walking, even if the first level is passed. If not, remove it. Second, look at the buttocks. If the buttocks are too large and disproportionate, remove them! Third, look at the hair. Hair is overly shiny and truncates. Fourth, look between the eyebrows. Excessive stretch between the eyebrows, remove.
Smell: smell its body fragrance. That faint virgin body fragrance, but a proof of virginity or not.
Q: It is to make judgments by making a judgment.
Cut: That is to cut directly, really feel it.
Netizen said:
1. It is a summary of experience and has some truth.
Mr. Li, 34 years old company executive
I think there is some truth to what the Internet says. From my years of "love experience", virgins and non-virgins do look very different, especially in the legs and buttocks. Of course, it can also be judged from the language and reaction. It is better to believe it or not!
2. It has no scientific basis and is pure nonsense.
Miss Wang, 28 years old, company human resources specialist
Is the topic of a virgin not a virgin important? If a man cares about this, it is definitely not true love! But I still have to complain, the rumors that virgins can be identified by appearance and smell are too far-fetched! Women's body shapes are inherently diverse Physical odor and language personality are not the same, unless it can be determined by the identification of physiological experts, these methods are really superficial and ridiculous!
Expert Answers: Zhang Wenjun, Chief Physician of Plastic Surgery, Shanghai Changzheng Hospital
1. The online virginity test is unreliable
Sexual behavior has no direct impact on human physiology and body shape, and most of the above "identification methods" are unreliable. However, after a woman has sex, her psychological state can change, which may lead to changes in behavior and lifestyle. Therefore, these methods can only be used for conjecture and reasoning, and can not really determine whether it is a virgin or not.
2. What does a true hymen look like
The pores of the hymen of a true virgin are very small, and the current situation of the pores is very regular, the top, bottom, left and right are smooth and symmetrical, the size of the pores can only accommodate the size of a finger, and the hymen is translucent color, and the hymen And there will never be any scars on the edge of the hymen, and there is more bleeding during the first intercourse, usually a bloodstain the size of a woman's own palm. Another feature is that the genitals are very tight and narrow, and the resistance is very large when entering, which is obvious.
3. How to identify the hymen that is surgically repaired
(1) See if there are sutures around the hymen
In fact, no matter any hymen repair surgery or Korean-style hymen reconstruction surgery, as long as the hymen is repaired by surgery and needle and thread, they all have a characteristic, which is the criterion and basis for identifying whether a woman has undergone hymen repair surgery. No matter what kind of hymen reconstruction surgery, the holes in the repaired hymen cannot be regular and smooth, and the holes are obviously larger, the shape of this hole is Z-shaped, Y-shaped, or radial. And you can clearly see a full circle of sutures left around the hymen after hymen repair surgery.
If the Korean-style hymen reconstruction surgery is done with absorbable thread, it is the same, you can see some thread ends on the edge of the hymen (many people think that absorbable thread is completely invisible after absorption, this is wrong, absorbable thread does not It means complete absorption. Those women who have had a caesarean section know that the absorbable thread is by no means completely absorbed to the point of no trace, and it takes at least 5 years for the thread end of the absorbable thread to be completely absorbed).
(2) Feel the tightness of the vagina
Another way to identify whether the hymen is surgical repair is: because many girls think that the price of hymen repair surgery is the cost of recovering the entire virginity, so often when doing this surgery in the hospital, when the doctor says that it needs to be done at the same time When vaginal tightening surgery is charged separately (vaginal tightening is much more expensive than hymen repair surgery), they often don’t think about it and don’t prepare for the cost, so they don’t do it at the same time as hymen reconstruction surgery. A vaginal tightening procedure so that although the hymen is there, the vagina is relaxed. When we had sex, it was obvious that I was a fake virgin.
4. How to recognize that she is using an artificial hymen
(1) The artificial hymen is not made of meat: for example, if our outer skin is broken, a blood scab will form after a period of time, and the fleshy hymen will also release the blood scab after the rupture, and when we have sex again after a period of time , will be brought out because of the penile membrane, and if it is worn, it will be attached to the condom, which is not the case with artificial hymen. (Note: The time before and after sex should not be too long, otherwise the broken skin will heal within a few days, and there will be no blood scab left.)
(2) The color is wrong: the blood from this diaphragm is a bit rose red, not bright red
(3) Non-coagulation process: normal blood will have a coagulation process, from bright red to purple to darker dark red. But this membrane will not have this change because it is fake blood.
5. Is the fake hymen harmful to the female body?
(1) Hymen surgery is basically harmless to the body and does not affect fertility and sexual life, but improper postoperative maintenance can lead to infection.
Hymen repair is an outpatient minor surgery. The surgery is to repair your previously ruptured hymen. It is non-invasive to normal tissues and has no effect on your future life and fertility. That is, what was your hymen before? What is the situation.
Women should take oral antibiotics to prevent infection in time after surgery, and at the same time take potassium permanganate sitz bath as prescribed by the doctor, twice a day for a total of 7 days. Vigorous exercise to maintain the best results of the surgery.
(2) Artificial hymen is very harmful and may cause infertility crisis.
There is a great hidden danger in the quality and safety of hymen creation. If used blindly, it is easy to cause physical diseases and even leave lifelong regrets. Girls should stay away from it.
The artificial hymen is illegally traded in private, and it is unclear what the red liquid inside is and what its ingredients are. Experts have listed various hazards that artificial hymen may bring: due to its rough texture, it is easy to cause vaginal wall scratches and blood vessels to bleed; due to poor hygiene, it is easy to bring about fungalitis, trichomoniasis, gonorrhea and even pelvic inflammatory disease, sepsis, etc. etc.; due to the unknown source of the liquid inside, it may produce a chemical reaction after rupture, burn the vagina, cause infertility, and bring lifelong pain.
Experts suggest that once discomfort is caused by the use of artificial hymen, you should go to a regular hospital for medical treatment as soon as possible, and you must not delay treatment because of "sorry" or go to a small clinic for hidden treatment, so as to avoid hidden dangers.