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Please try to understand my point of view.
请理解我的观点.
Wait, can I take that back?
等一下,我能收回我说的话吗?
You don't have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.
我不用帮我解决这个问题.和你聊一下就对我有帮助.
This is important to me. Please listen.
这对我很重要.请仔细听.
I overreacted.
我反应过激了.
I see you're in a tough position.
我知道你的处境艰难.
I can see my part in this.
这个问题,我有错.
I hadn't thought of it that way before.
我以前没有这样想.
I could be wrong.
我可能是错的.
Let's agree to disagree on that.
让我们接受我们的不同观点.
This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.
这不只是你的问题.这是我们的问题.
I'm feeling unappreciated.
我感觉没有收到重视.
We're getting off the subject.
I know I need to listen more.
我知道,我应该多倾听.
You've convinced me.
你说服我了.
Let's take a break for a few minutes.
让我们停一会.
If you can remember to do this, it's extremely effective—especially if you're having a big fight. After a break, it's almost impossible to go back to yelling.
Please keep talking to me.
别不理我.
I realize it's not your fault.
我意识到这不是你的错.
That came out all wrong.
我表达错了.
I see how I contributed to the problem.
我明白我引起了这个问题.
What are we really fighting about?
我们到底在为什么争吵?
How can I make things better?
我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢?
We can solve this if we work together.
如果我们携手合作,我们就可以解决这个问题.
I'm sorry.
对不起.
I love you.
我爱你.
最后两句是最简单、最有力量的!
