误解可能会带来生活不便、经济损失,甚至造成感情破烈。如何消除误解,达至更有效的沟通是现代人都必须学习的人生重要一课!下面让我们一起学习以下的口语要素,学会如何更有效地减少在日常交流中的误解,成为沟通交流的高手。
1. Are you following me? 你清楚了吗?/你听懂了吗?
A. Make sure you pick me up at seven o'clock sharp .Are you following me?
你要保证七点整来接我,清楚了吗?
B. Don't worry. I'm never late.
不用担心,我从不迟到.
2. (Do) you know what I mean? 你明白我的意思吗?
A: It's never too late to learn. (Do) you know what I mean?
活到老,学到老,你明白我的意思吗?
B: Yes. I agree one hungered percent.
明白,我百分这百同意.
3. Does it make sense? 这样讲得通吗?
A: Does it make sense?
这样讲得通吗?
B: I think I know what you are trying to say, but I disagree.
我想我知道你要说什么,但我不同意.
4. Do you get the picture? 你清楚了吗?
A: Do you get the picture?
你清楚了吗?
B: No. Could you be more specific?
不清楚,你能说得具体点吗?
5. Do I make myself clear? 你明白我的意思了吗?
A: I want you to be back here by 9:00. Do I make myself clear?
我想要你九点钟前回到这儿来,你听明白了吗?
B: Yes, I know perfectly what you mean.
是的,我完全明白你的意思.
6. I'm not sure I understand. 我不太明白.
A: I 'm not sure I understand.
我不太明白.
B: Forget it .It is just a joke.
算了,只是个玩笑罢了.
7.I get your drift .我明白你的意思.
A: You need to work hard to get ahead in this company .Do you understand me?
想要在这家公司出人头地,就得努力工作.你明白我的意思了吗?
B: I get your drift.
我明白你的意思.
8.I'd like to confirm what you said .我想确认一下你说的话.
A: I'd like to confirm what you said .We will have a meeting at 3 pm, right?
我想确认一下你说的话,我们下午三点有个会议是吗?
B: No, the meeting will begin at 4 pm.
不是的,会议四点开始.
9.Let me make sure I have it .我得确定我弄明了.
A: Let me make sure I have it .Is Bill your brother?
我得确定我弄明白了,比尔是你的哥哥吗?
B: No, Bill is my brother-in -law.
不是的,比尔是我的姐夫.
10.If there's anything you don't understand ,please let me know .如果你有什么不明白的地方,请告诉我.
A: If there's anything you don't understand, please let me know.
如果你有什么不明白,请告诉我.
B: OK, if I have any questions, I will turn to you.
好的,如果有疑问,我会向你请教.