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爱为何物? What is Love?

用爱学英文~爱到底是什么?Vocabulary of Love:love = 爱nonlove = 无爱liking = 喜欢friendship = 友谊obsession =痴迷attraction = 吸引intimacy = 亲密passion = 激情commitment = 承诺interpersonal relationship =人际关

用爱学英文~爱到底是什么?

Vocabulary of Love:

love = 爱

nonlove = 无爱

liking = 喜欢

friendship = 友谊

obsession =痴迷

attraction = 吸引

intimacy = 亲密

passion = 激情

commitment = 承诺

interpersonal relationship =人际关系

infatuate love = passion without commitment or intimacy

迷恋之爱 = 没有承诺与亲密感觉的情欲

empty love = commitment without physical attraction or mutual understanding

空虚的爱 = 没有互相吸引与亲密感的承诺

romantic love = passion + intimacy

浪漫的爱 = 激情 + 亲密

companion love = intimacy + commitment

友谊爱 = 亲密关系 + 承诺

fatuous love = passion + commitment

虚幻的爱 =激情 + 承诺

consummate love = passion + intimacy + commitment

完整的爱 = 激情 + 亲密 + 承诺

 爱为何物? What is Love?

「爱情三角理论」 The triangular theory of love

美国心理学家罗伯特·史坦伯格 (Robert Sternberg) 制定了简单的理论来定义爱情。他的「爱情三角理论」“the triangular theory of love” 是从人际关系中提链出的。基本上,爱情简单是由三部分组成的三角形:

Passion: 热情;激情

Passion ebbs and flows like hunger. Artists and creative people tend to be expressive in showing their passions, and longing for the fuels that keep the passionate feelings going.

激情的起起落落就像饥饿。艺术家与爱创作的创意的人往往爱表现出中热情,也向往寻找让激烈的感情持续的燃料。

Intimacy: 熟悉;亲密;亲近

Intimacy emerges as two or more people spend quality time together. Friends, coworkers, teachers and students, who have become familiar with each other often develop a sense of Platonic intimacy.

当两个或更多的人一起度过美好时光,亲密关系就产生了。朋友,同事,老师与学生,在熟悉中往往会发展柏拉图式的亲密感。

Commitment: 承诺,保证;承担的义务

Sincere commitments are shown through the mutual knowledge that, the ones in a committed relationship will always care for each other, and they can always trust, and count on their counterparts in their moments of vulnerabilities.

真诚的承诺在相互了解展现,互相关系的人始终会照顾彼此,也可以信任对方,并在脆弱的时刻时,依靠信任的人。

Balanced and Imbalanced Triangles 平衡与不平衡的三角形:

几何形状的任何一侧如果太多或不足够都会导致不平衡的形状。激情加上亲密的浪漫之爱往往不长久,因为公式中缺少了承诺。当热情消退了,两个也就人成为适应彼此的老朋友,而爱情也是专注在陪伴彼此的友伴之爱。如果长久的吸引力加上相互的陪伴,可是没有互相的了解与共识,没有意义的关系就成为了虚幻的爱。

如果三角形的三边都保持坚固,平衡的三角形等于是完整的爱。平衡的结构会被情侣想在一起的意念保护,而他们的感情世界中,没有更快乐的地方。

romantic love = passion + intimacy = temporary

浪漫的爱 = 激情 + 亲密= 暂时性的

companion love = intimacy + commitment = old friends

友谊爱 = 亲密关系 + 承诺 = 老朋友

fatuous love = passion + commitment = meaningless

虚幻的爱 =激情 + 承诺= 缺少意义

consummate love = passion + intimacy + commitment = happy and fortunate

完整的爱 = 激情 + 亲密 + 承诺 = 幸福快乐

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